Life Trove
A celebration of treasured moments
May 19, 2026
Hooked on classics
April 20, 2026
Birthday song for Sam
I’ve Watched You Become
Verse 1
Feels like yesterday, Cape Town light
Holding you there for the very first time
So small, so perfect, breath held still
Didn’t know then just how much I’d feel
Through London years and Sydney skies
Watching your world through visits and goodbyes
But every time I saw your face
I saw the person you’d become
Chorus 1
And I’ve watched you become who you are
From a spark to a rising star
From “faster, faster” chasing the wind
To a heart that lets the whole world in
And even from oceans apart
I’ve carried you here in my heart
Verse 2
Running wild with no brakes at all
Laughing loud, never scared to fall
Sunset gold at Llandudno
Salt in your hair, that ocean glow
Sunrise swims in the quiet blue
Finding something honest and true
Curled up slow with a book in hand
Then lighting up every room you stand in
Chorus 2
And I’ve watched you become who you are
All that light, all that heart
Every laugh and every tear
Every doubt that brought you here
And you shine in all that you do
In a way that’s so deeply you
Verse 3
Now you sit in that sacred space
Holding lives with such quiet grace
You see the parts we try to hide
And help them breathe, and soften inside
You’ve known those shadows in your own way
That’s how you know just what to say
Turning pain into something kind
A healing hand, a steady mind
Chorus 3
And I’ve watched you become who you are
Not in spite of the scars
But because you feel so deep
You can hold what others keep
And the world is better, it’s true
Just because it has you
Verse 4
In Kenilworth streets you’ve made your home
Not far from Matt, not far from your own
Sunlight drifting through quiet rooms
Soft conversations, creative blooms
From Stellenbosch halls to Hermanus shores
Giving your heart to something that’s more
And every client that finds your care
Feels something safe just being there
Bridge
From dancing to Abba as a child
To standing strong and undefiled
From fearless speed to deeper sight
You grew your wings in your own time
And all the love you give away
You see it in the lives you touch
It’s there in how you show up
In all the quiet things you do
Final Chorus
And I’ve watched you become who you are
And I couldn’t be more proud
Through every high and every fall
You’ve found a way to hold it all
So keep shining, just like you do
The world is better with you
April 14, 2026
The Dance
I love this country song sung by Garth Brooks. It epitomises how I feel about my relationship with Ally.
The Dance
Lookin' back on the memory of
The dance we shared beneath the stars above
For a moment all the world wasn't right
How could I have known that you'd ever say goodbye?
And now, I'm glad I didn't know
The way it all would end, the way it all would go
Our lives are better left to chance
I could've missed the pain
But I'd had to miss the dance
And holding you, I held everything
For a moment, wasn't I the king?
If I'd only known how the king would fall
Hey, who's to say, you know I might have changed it all
And now, I'm glad I didn't know
The way it all would end, the way it all would go
Our lives are better left to chance
I could've missed the pain
But I'd had to miss the dance
It's my life, it's better left to chance
I could've missed the pain
But I'd had to miss the dance
April 06, 2026
Memorable moments: Love, sweet love, and a little squirt of soap
When friends from overseas visit, I don’t just take them to the Opera House; I take them on a formal tour of the public amenities. It is a masterclass in automated hospitality. You walk in, and the door glides shut with a soft, futuristic click. Then, a warm, friendly voice fills the small space: "Welcome and enjoy your experience here!"
Before you can even process the invitation to "enjoy" a public restroom, the soundtrack begins. It doesn't just play elevator music; it plays the classics, including the theme of "What the World Needs Now Is Love, Sweet Love." There you are, in a public park in Sydney, experiencing a moment of profound, melodic encouragement in the most unlikely of settings.
When the "experience" is complete, the voice returns with a gentle reminder: "Thank you for using me. Please wash your hands." It then punctuates the request by dispensing a perfect, polite little squirt of soap.
I love Brennan Park, but I love that toilet even more. It is a rare and wonderful thing to find a piece of technology that seems genuinely invested in your well-being. In a world that can often feel cold and mechanical, this little booth stands as a beacon of programmed sincerity—offering music, hygiene, and a small, automated reminder that what the world really needs is a little more care and a clean set of hands.
Music
Music washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life. Red Auerbach
Music, to me, is one of the great gifts of being alive. Nothing makes me feel like music and often it facilitates a sacred release. My preferred way of listening to music is to play it through my headphones and focus mindfully on the music alone, as a form of meditation. At times, I also like to listen to instrumental music while I work.
Songs
Favourite music
- Nostalgic music
- Favourite songs
- Favourite music (spiritual)
- The soundtrack of my childhood & teens
- Albums I listened to over and over in my twenties
- Spotify playlists
- Nostalgic music from my childhood (Spotify playlist)
- Nostalgic music from my twenties (Spotify playlist)
- Nostalgic music from my thirties (Spotify playlist)
- Nostalgic music from my fourties (Spotify playlist)
- Nostalgic music from my fifties (Spotify playlist)
- Favourite music from musicals (Spotify playlist)
- Favourite spiritual music (Spotify playlist)
Music from movies and TV
- My favourite instrumental music from movies (Spotify playlist)
- My favourite songs from movies (Spotify playlist)
- Nostalgic music: TV themes (Spotify playlist)
Concerts & Musicals
Technology
Music listening ongoing
March 28, 2026
Memorable moments: The grocer’s growl
In my neighborhood, there is a local grocer I visit almost every day. It’s run by a delightful Greek family—Vula, Steve, and their two sons, Dennis and Peter. They are the salt of the earth. Dennis, in particular, has always struck me as a gentle, quiet soul. He has a peaceful vibe and, notably, even less hair than I do.
When my friend Yogi and I heard that Dennis was the lead vocalist for a band, we were charmed. We imagined a night of smooth crooning or perhaps some laid-back, chilled-out acoustic numbers in accordance with his mellow personality. We decided to head down to the local pub to support him and the family.
We walked into the back room where the performance was starting. Vula, Steve, and Peter were already there, beaming with pride. Dennis stepped up to the microphone, took a deep breath, and suddenly:
"RAAAAAGH!!!!!"
He let out a guttural, earth-shaking bellow like a demented beast from the underworld. The band crashed in with a deafening, distorted roar that felt like a physical blow to the chest. It turns out Dennis isn't a crooner; he’s the frontman for a high-octane Death Metal band.
The room transformed instantly into a sea of pumping vitality. The audience began thrashing and headbanging in a synchronized frenzy, and within sixty seconds, my ears were ringing with the force of a jet engine.
I beat a hasty retreat to the toilets, grabbed two massive wads of tissue paper, and performed a quick "field dressing" on my ears and Yogi’s to filter the noise down to a survivable level.
Once the initial shock wore off and the volume was somewhat muffled by the toilet paper, I actually started to get into it. There was an incredible, raw energy to the performance.
Now, whenever I go into the shop, I see Dennis in a completely different light. As he gently weighs my tomatoes and asks about my day, I can’t help but smile, knowing that beneath that calm, bald exterior lies a man who spends his weekends screaming into the abyss—and that the abyss, quite clearly, screams back. It’s a beautiful reminder that you should never judge a man by his apron; he might just be a grocery clerk by day and a demonic deity by night.
March 28, 2026
Memorable moments: The logistical symphony
One evening, Ivor and I went to watch his little daughter perform at a school music evening. It was one of those classic parental milestones, but the physics of the event were spectacularly skewed.
When it was her turn, she appeared on stage looking tiny and delicate—followed by an adult lugging a cello that was quite clearly three times her size. It looked less like a musical instrument and more like a large wooden wardrobe she was expected to wrestle into submission.
What followed was a masterclass in slow-motion preparation. It took a solid twenty minutes of intense focus just to get the logistics right: the chair was adjusted, the music stand was maneuvered, the endpin was stabbed into the floor, and she spent an eternity shifting into the "exactly right" anatomical position to accommodate the giant mahogany beast.
Finally, after the Herculean setup was complete, she took a breath, gave what seemed like exactly three deliberate strokes of the bow, and... it was over. The performance lasted about thirty seconds. The ratio of "preparation" to "actual music" was mathematically absurd.
But she was absolutely adorable, and despite the comical brevity of the piece, Ivor was beaming. He was the picture of the proud father, unmoved by the fact that the setup had taken forty times longer than the symphony.
Watching Ivor that night, I realized that pride has nothing to do with the length of the performance. It’s about the twenty minutes of watching someone you love negotiate a truce with a giant wooden beast for the sake of three perfect notes.
March 24, 2026
Memorable moments: The profane pharaoh
At school, it was boys only—so naturally, boys had to play the female roles. For reasons no one ever fully explained, I became the go-to woman.
I played everything from anxious mothers to dramatic widows, but the peak was an elderly spinster on a plane who foils a hijacking attempt. I studied my gran for days—her posture, her voice, the way she pursed her lips at mild disapproval. It worked. I won the annual acting award.
But by my final year, I’d had enough.
“Bugger this,” I thought. “I want a masculine role.”
We were doing Joseph and the Technicolour Dreamcoat, and I went straight for Pharaoh—the Elvis-style showstopper. Pelvic thrusts. Swagger. Power. Redemption.
Opening night: I cycled onto stage in padded cycling shorts (for reasons that made sense at the time), grabbed the microphone, and launched into full Elvis mode. The thrusts were… enhanced. The crowd loved it. Slight complication: my gran was in the second row, witnessing the entire evolution of her observational study in reverse.
But it was a triumph. Overnight, I went from deeply uncool to oddly legendary among the younger boys.
Then came the final night.
I cycled on. Big entrance. Huge energy. Grabbed the wired microphone… and nothing.
Silence.
Without thinking, I whispered loudly, “Switch on the effing microphone!”
At which exact moment… it switched on.
My voice boomed through the entire hall.
There was a stunned pause.
Then the biggest laugh of the entire show.
I set out to prove I was a man's man; I ended up proving that if you’re going to swear in front of your grandmother, you might as well do it in padded bike shorts with a backing band.
March 15, 2026
Song for Xenia for her birthday
A heartfelt song I created for Xenia to celebrate our beautiful friendship and her birthday.
The Road Gets Brighter With You
Verse 1
Tuesday nights in Jilly’s lounge
Quiet seekers gathered round
Listening for a deeper truth
That’s the night I first met you
You spoke your heart so honestly
No disguise, just authenticity
And something in that gentle room
A rare friendship began to bloom
Chorus 1
Life gets brighter walking with you
Through harbour winds and morning blue
From Jilly’s circle to cafés nearby
You make the ordinary shine
Some friends appear then drift from view
But some feel timeless, deep and true
Through every step my heart still knew
Life’s a richer road with you
Verse 2
Bowral roads and country skies
Driving out to visit Jilly
Lunch at The Mill, laughter rising
Those long trips felt easy
Friday mornings, Balls Head views
Harbour light and quiet blues
Meditation, dreams we share
Designing lives with care
Chorus 2
The road grows deeper walking with you
From Bowral hills to harbour views
Friday mornings by the sea
Talking about the lives we’ll lead
The courage in the truth you show
The open heart that lets love flow
Through every mile my spirit knew
Life feels wider next to you
Verse 3
You sing when courage calls your name
Your voice rising clear and brave
You share your art with open heart
Showing others it’s okay
You help the lost stand up again
Seeing light in broken souls
Though the world may overlook
The quiet strength you hold
Chorus 3
The world feels kinder walking with you
Through parkland paths and harbour views
Through lockdown days we found a way
Meeting in the park each day
Through laughter, wisdom, food and song
A friendship steady, deep and strong
Through every season I still see
The gift you’ve been to me
Verse 4
With Chris and Jane and Shushann too
And Krissula beside us
Our little circle gathering
Where laughter lives and guides us
Stories shared across the table
Life unfolding as we go
Friendships woven strong and kind
The kind few people know
Chorus 4
And the circle grows brighter with you
Through meals and music shared in view
Through honest words and laughter too
You make this wandering life feel true
Some friends pass quickly out of view
But some help shape the life we choose
And every mile my heart still knew
Life’s a better road with you
Bridge
You’ve taught me truth is worth the cost
To live with nothing left concealed
To meet the world with honesty
And let the heart be fully revealed
And when my anxious storms appear
You meet them calm and crystal clear
A friend who helps me find again
The beauty living here
Final Chorus
Life feels sacred walking with you
From Mackie’s quiet trust of you
To harbour winds and wandering paths
And tables full of joyful laughs
Through every valley, every view
I know how rare a soul like you
And every mile my heart still says
Life is a better road with you.
Her lovely response
December 09, 2025
December 07, 2025
December 04, 2025
Spotify Top Songs by Year
December 01, 2025
A song for Helen, Chris's sister
Helen is unwell and Chris wanted to create a song for her expressing love. We had so much fun creating it. Song creating is such a wonderful new creative outlet.
“Helen, You Still Bloom”
November 25, 2025
My first spiritual song
Right now
November 24, 2025
Another spiritual song (entirely different!)
Based on a poem I wrote in 2021.
I Am
I am unremitting joy. I am utter despair.
I am languid peace. I am chaotic turmoil.
I am abundant generosity. I am insatiable greed.
I am adoring love. I am heartless indifference.
I am pure innocence. I am vulgar sleaze.
I am cocksure swagger. I am fearful doubt.
I am a shy smile. I am a vicious snarl.
I am a soaring symphony. I am a fearful din.
I am a scurrying ant. I am a motionless sloth.
I am a soaring eagle. I am a crawling worm.
I am a gargantuan tree. I am a tiny flower.
I am an omnipotent king. I am a cowering subject.
I am an athletic champion. I am a lazy slob.
I am a holy saint. I am an atrocious tyrant.
I am an impenetrable jungle. I am a withered land.
I am a mountain peak. I am a gaping abyss.
I am a blazing sun. I am a planet of ice.
I am an endless galaxy. I am a grain of sand.
I am a radiant light. I am the darkest night.
I am this. I am that.
I am here. I am there.
I am him. I am her.
I am you. I am me.
I am the collective experience of all these things
and many, many more;
a kaleidoscope of a quintillion different perceptions
and I am that which makes experiencing possible.
I am the Eternal Subject
yet I also take the form of every object.
I Am All That Is.
I Am all Knowing.
I Am all Being.
I Am.
I Am.
I Am.
Written: 2021
October 25, 2025
A song I created for Jo
I had so much fun creating this for Jo.
My Sister, My Heart
October 24, 2025
My first song: A song I created for mum with help from Suno
Thank You, Mum
Suno
There’s something quietly magical about using Suno—like being handed a doorway into a lifelong dream. I’ve always wanted to create songs, but never had the musical training or tools to do it. Now, with just a few words, melodies begin to form, voices emerge, and fully realised songs take shape out of thin air.
September 10, 2025
Favourite songs 2025: Laufey
I'm totally in love with the voice and music of Laufey, an Icelandic singer I have discovered. Not only does she compose her own songs, she is a very accomplished cellist (an instrument I love too) and often plays it in her songs. Her music is both timeless and retro. It makes me feel deeply nostalgic.
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September 07, 2025
Dennis, Rock God of Waverton
Well it's official, the guy who runs our local Waverton grocery store with his family is nothing short of a Rock God! How awesome is this version of "To the Moon and Back". Dennis is the singer.
December 29, 2024
Stage musicals I've been to
Childhood
- South Pacific
University years
- District 6
- Madam Butterfly
Old Mutual years
- River Dance
- The Buddy Holly Story
London (1997)
- Phantom of The Opera
- Jesus Christ Superstar
- Miss Saigon
London (2000 - 2005)
- Chicago
- Les Miserables
- Starlight Express
- The Mikado
- Mama Mia
- Joseph
- The Lion King (with Niki)
Australia
- Pricilla Queen of the Desert (with Ally & Kerri)
- Jersey Boys (with Lizzy)
- Chorus Line (with Dani)
- Anything Goes (with Sue)
- Evita (with Christina)
