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Showing posts with label holiday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label holiday. Show all posts

April 06, 2026

The glow of Paradise Island

In 1996, Ally and I flew to Mozambique for a romantic getaway on the legendary Paradise Island. The hotel had been the height of opulence in the 1960s, but decades of civil war had left it in a state of beautiful decay. It was in the early stages of a renovation and, in the meantime, was offering a "rustic experience" at a price we couldn't resist.

The island was every bit the postcard: leaning coconut trees, brilliant azure water, and sand the color of gold. The hotel was equally atmospheric. When we arrived in our room, we found an assortment of candles left on the table by the friendly staff. We embraced the mood immediately, spending our evenings in the soft, flickering amber light, feeling like castaways in a more elegant era.

We spent an idyllic week lazing on the beach and chilling out by candlelight. We didn't even miss the hum of a bar fridge; the primitive, unplugged island life was exactly what we needed.

On our final morning, as we were lugging our bags toward the door to catch our flight, I happened to shoulder-nudge the old, peeled-away plastic switch on the wall.

Voila! The room was suddenly flooded with electric light.

We stood there, blinking like owls in the unexpected light, and burst into laughter. The modern world had been standing right there in the corner the entire time, waiting patiently for a single flick of a finger. We had spent the entire holiday in a 19th-century fantasy purely by accident. We didn't mind—the candles had provided a romance the local power grid never could have matched—but it was a hilarious reminder of how easily we inhabit the "reality" we think we've been given.

April 05, 2026

Memorable moments: The Goddess of Eight Bells

When I was young, our family holidays were spent at a farm retreat called Eight Bells, several hours from Cape Town. For me, the entire trip revolved around one thing: the horses.

I wasn't an experienced rider, but I made up for it with sheer, unbridled passion. The routine was always the same—we would walk the horses slowly up the paddock, then turn around for the ride back. That was the highlight, when the horses would pick up the pace into a trot or, if we were lucky, a gentle canter.

I was usually assigned the "mellow" mares, the ones with sweet, nursery-rhyme names like Tinkerbell and Buttercup. They were patient, steady, and—in my memory at least—pure white. I felt like a king on their backs, even if we were mostly just following the trail.

But then there was the farmer’s daughter.

She was eleven to my nine, and she inhabited a completely different world. While I was bobbing along on Buttercup, she was mounted on the stallions—beasts with names like Storm and Fury, as black as mine were white. She didn't walk or trot; she galloped.

I can still see her vividly: charging across the paddock with immense, effortless confidence, her long blonde hair flowing behind her like a banner. She was magnificent. To a nine-year-old boy on a horse named Tinkerbell, she wasn't just a neighbor or a fellow rider; she was a force of nature. I watched her from the back of my slow-moving mare, completely enthralled by the speed, the power, and the sheer "otherness" of a girl who could tame a horse called Fury.

She belonged to the wind and the open field. I belonged to the track and the steady rhythm of hooves. And somewhere between Buttercup and Fury, between walking and flying, a small boy first felt the pull of a bigger, wilder world.

April 02, 2026

Memorable moments: The middle way

When I was seventeen, my family flew to Mauritius for a holiday. We touched down at the airport in Port Louis and boarded a bus to be transported to our hotel. Almost immediately, the journey took on a life-threatening quality. The driver operated the vehicle like a bat out of hell, hurtling down the center of the road with terrifying speed.

My mum, who has never been a calm passenger at the best of times, was visibly shaken. We were all sitting right at the front of the bus, giving us a panoramic view of what appeared to be impending doom. As we gripped our seats, we noticed that we weren't alone; many of the other cars were also straddling the white lines, treating the two lanes as one giant suggestion.

My dad, trying to make sense of the chaos, finally spoke up. "Wow," he said to the driver, "everyone seems to drive right in the middle of the road here!"

The driver let out a hearty laugh, not even slowing his pace.

"Yes!" he shouted over the engine. "You see, when the French colonized our island, they forced us to drive on the right. Then the English came and they forced us to drive on the left. Now that we are independent, we drive in the middle!"

It was the perfect lesson in post-colonial logic. While the diplomats were busy drafting constitutions, the bus drivers of Mauritius had found their own way to express their freedom: by occupying every inch of the asphalt at ninety kilometers an hour.

July 13, 2018

Mauritius with the family

Mum treated us to the most amazing holiday in Mauritius to celebrate Mike's 80th birthday.  We stayed at Le Victoria hotel and the food was sumptuous beyond description with 3 restaurants to choose from (Buffet, Italian and Seafood).  Highlights also included a sailing trip and an amazing hike at Le Morne Peninsula.  It was fantastic to spend quality time with everyone.  Poor mum was in a wheelchair because of a very sore back but she was an indomitable champion, refusing to let it spoil the holiday.

Photo: Jo



















Grand Bay






Sailing













Hiking














Where we were



Farewell fair Mauritius




January 17, 2017

Cape Town & Garden Route 2016 & 2017 Highlights

It's been a wonderful two months that has flown by.  Lots of quality time with the family. Some great outings and swims at the beach and Silvermine. A fabulous roadtrip. to Sedgefield.  And I even managed to get plenty of work done.




Date

  • 20 Nov 2016 - 15 Jan 2017  (8 weeks)


Outings



Road trip to Sedgefield



Walks



Family



Food

  • Mum's orgasmic Xmas cake
  • The Spur (Pecan Nut Sundae!! x2)
  • Pizza at Pomodoro (Wilderness): blue cheese, onion, ham and sweet fig and the best base ever.
  • Kudu, Ostrich and Steak in Stellenbosch
  • Fish and chips at Woodside
  • Braaid fish and Kalamari with Jo at Kalkbay
  • Pizza at Kelvin with Liz and family
  • The Eatery for lunch with mum
  • Facachia with the Botings
  • Peddlers
  • Forries
  • Lunch at Katima 


School



Friends



Purchases

  • New sunglasses
  • New reading glasses
  • Shoes with mum
  • Battle Field 1 for Matt


Admin

  • Getting new passport and ID


Movies

  • Star Wars Rogue 1  (*)
  • Planet Earth 2
  • Happy People, a year of the Tiagra
  • Miss Saigon
  • Girl on a Train
  • Nocturnal Animals
  • Forrest Gump
  • Brooklyn
  • The Lego Movie
  • Miss Saigon
  • Hell or Highwater
  • Sicario
  • Eye in the Sky
  • Zootopia
  • The Accountant
  • The Light Between Oceans
  • Suicide Squad
  • Black Mirror ("Playtest" with Matt, then "Be Right Back" with Jo)
  • Hunger Games Mocking Jay 2
  • Tickled


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May 31, 2015

South Africa 2015 Highlights

What a time in South Africa. First the Tsitsikama Trail with the family and Chrisel. Then Storms River, Addo Elephant Park and Mosselbay with Chrisel. Then back to Cape Town do enjoy outings to Kirstenbosch, Lion's Head, Table Mountain, the beaches and Hermanus. Then a super trip on the Baz Bus to Jeffrey's Bay, Cintsa, Hogs Back, Port St Johns, Southern Drakensberg, Northern Drakensberg and Joberg. Finally some more time in Cape Town with the family.




Date

  • 22 March 2015 - 31 May 2015  (10 weeks)


Cape Town



Garden Route



Cape Town with Chrisèl



Baz bus



Cape Town



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