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4 August 2000

Samantha - childhood years



Letter (May 2014)

Dear Sam

I am now back in Sydney and missing you guys an awful lot.  As always, it was so wonderful to spend time with you in Cape Town and laugh and do fun things.   Thank you for making my time in Cape Town so special like you always do.

To help me banish my missing-you blues, I thought I'd write down my favourite memories of you from your life so far.  I thought you might like to read them too.

Here they are ...


As a baby
  • Seeing you for the first time after you were born and holding you in my arms.  You were so tiny and so beautiful that you completely took my breath away. 

As a toddler
  • Your mum and dad visiting me in London with you in tow - and lying with you tucked in my sleeping bag.
  • Playing "spider spider" with you in the garden.  I'd point at a pretend spider in the bushes and say "spider!" and you'd scream and laugh at the same time.  I hope it didn't give you a fear of spiders for life!!
  • You dancing with mum, dad and me to loud Abba music - you were such a great little dancer even at age 2!!

From your childhood years
  • Trampolining together and playing all sorts of "fall down" games.  So much fun!!
  • Watching you in your nativity play - you made such an unbelievable cute little angel!!
  • How you loved to invent "let's pretend" games and then ask me to play them with you.  You were so inventive from a really early age.
  • Going miniature car racing with you in my car.   You had a real love for speed and kept shouting "Faster!  Faster!" even when we were hurtling around the corners.
  • Playing many games of hide and seek in the house and garden - you were extremely good at hiding, especially in small cupboards!!
  • Playing with you at the Play Centre - especially the fun we had on the blow up slide.
  • You dressed as a precious stone for your school concert - what a gem you were !
  • Ice skating with you on my shoulders.
  • Teaching you how to do Myburghian leaps at St James - you were so good at it too! 
  • Your love of barbie dolls and The Brats and your wonderful Brats Party.
  • Your love of Hannah Montanna.  My hasn't Miley Cyrus changed a lot since then !!!  
  • Playing lots of fun games in the pool like Marco Polo and pushing each other in.
  • Tobogganing together with you in the same car.  You didn't believe in applying the breaks even on corners and terrified the hell out of me!    I reckon you're going to like fast cars one day!!
  • The amazing art that you did at school that your mum put on the annual calendars she sent me.
  • Photos of you dressed up in paint for the World Cup football and blowing like crazy into your vuvuzela!!  Wish I'd been there!

As a young women
  • Listening to your latest favourite music in the car - always such great tunes.
  • Your love of One Direction - and a certain Harry Styles!!
  • How amazing you are with younger kids, always patient and kind and attentive.
  • The incredible reports you get at school and your sensational final junior school results - you've clearly got the brains as well as the looks!
  • How amazing you were on the Orange River, in your own boat, so much calmer and chilled on the rapids than most of the adults.
  • The amazing videos you took in Vietnam and how you edited them with text and music - so cool!
  • How tech savvy you are with computers and phones and gadgets - and helping me out on several occasions.
  • Seeing how much you enjoy travelling the world, experiencing new things and places (especially London!!) 
  • How amazing you looked as a cat walk model in your school fashion show and at your Farewell Dance - you've blossomed into such a beauty.
  • Your prowess on the hockey field and basketball court - you go girl!

From this latest trip
  • Leaping with you at Llandudno.
  • Your love of the Vamps - and especially the song "Can We Dance."  The theme song for my trip.
  • Doing the Slingshot with you at Ratanga and seeing who would be the first to scream.  Man that was scary, I'm so glad it was you who had to release the cord and not me!
  • Doing the Monkey Falls over and over and getting really, really wet!  So fun except when the boat got wonky on the way up - that was freaky!!
  • Being really impressed by how calm you are before your orals and exams - you're amazing!!
  • How animated you get when you talk about something you believe strongly in - like genetically engineered babies or the rights of teenagers today!  It's great to see.
  • How affectionate and loving you are with your friends.
  • Playing in the back-seat of the car with you and Matt and pushing into each other on the tight corners.
  • How animated you get when you talk about a book or movie that you really like, like "Divergent" or "The Hunger Games."
  • Making delicious  custard - you've inherited the awesome Granny Sorrell custard making genes.  
  • How much you seem to enjoy your new school - I'm so glad.
  • You and Matt searching for marshmallow eggs on Easter morning.  Glad you guys found the one in the toaster!!  Can't believe you wouldn't eat the one in your dad's sweaty running shoe!
  • How excited you got when you discovered that One Direction are coming to Cape Town!!  Who cares about Afrikaans exams when you Harry will be here :)
  • Your loathing of injections and needles.  Ha, ha - I think you've inherited that from me!!!  
  • Introducing me to Dilanddau.com - what a great site!
  • Your wonderful sense of humour, always ready to laugh.

It's been such an awesome privilege to watch you grow up and mature into the amazing, beautiful, confident, loving person you are today.  I'm so proud and happy to be your uncle.  Thank you so much for all the priceless memories. I look forward to many more memory-making moments in the future.

With love and hugs,

Your uncle, Graeme


Yet more memories
  • How Ally adored little Sam as much as me
  • Sam's cute little dimple on her chin as a baby
  • Visiting us in London - and Sam tucked in my sleeping bag with me
  • Playing the "spider game" - I'd point at a pretend spider in the garden and Sam would scream and laugh at the same time (age 3)
  • Sam dancing with us (Jo, Ant and me) to loud music - I think it may have been Abba. (age 2)
  • Playing with Sam with her toys, including her miniature tent (age 2)
  • Spending Xmas 2005 together - and Sam running through the sprinkler with me (and then with Granny Jill!)  (age 5)
  • Watching Sam as a cute little angel in her nativity play (age 5)
  • Playing at the Play Centre - especially the fun we had with the blow up slide (age 6)
  • Picnics on Llandadno Beach whenever I visit and one of my favourite photos of Sam watching the sunset
  • Teaching Sam how to do Myburghian leaps at St James - she was really good at it too!  (age 6)
  • The family all dancing uproariously to Abba - and how much Sam enjoyed it (age 6) 
  • Sam in the bath with spiky hair - she looked so cute.  (age 6)
  • Sam dressed as a precious gem for her school concert (age 9) 
  • Spending Xmas 2009 together - especially playing lots of fun games in the pool (age 9)
  • Visiting the Waterfront Oceanarium (age 9)


Milestones


Art


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Sam with her brother  




 








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2 August 2000

31 July 2000

Progress (London years: 2000 - 2003)


Siegelgale

  • Making presentations flow (with follow on titles)
  • Snag-it capture
  • Synthesis skills
  • Impress Ken (to get good reference for Volvo)
  • Brand values: Values would become important part of Wisdom Trove later on


Tour-leading

  • Confidence and exuberance


Volvo

  • Getting my life back
  • The first work I really loved and didn't struggle with anxiety
  • Great for my confidence
  • Principles of web design and usability like web friendly content and calls to action (bought books)
  • Training presentations


Exercise

  • Bulk up at gym


Spirituality

  • Conversations with God:  Read and summarise (Nepal, Barbados)
  • 7 Laws of Spiritual Success (Nepal)


Life Trove conception

  • Surfing blogs between work - the seed for starting Life Trove in 2004

14 July 2000

Safe Host

A branding strategy project I was responsible for at Siegelgale. 


 

31 May 2000

Priceless moments (London years: 2000 - 2003)


London life

  • Touch rugby and the pub
  • The Grove rib-eye steak
  • Rollerblading
  • Mini player
  • Les Miserables
  • Biking around London (e.g. along the Thames)
  • Adam & Michael to stay (Twickenham, rollerblading, touch, wetting them)
  • Gym at Hammersmith - bulking up
  • Play lounge football with Adam
  • Pop Idol - with Simon Cowell, Will Young and Gareth
  • Sarah, Penny
  • Hammersmith - climbing out of the window and sitting on our "balcony"
  • New computer (Hammersmith)
  • Minidisk player gift
  • Listening to classical music, David Grey and Norah Jones on my minidisk player


Holidays

  • Barbados and Conversations with God
  • Croatia


Siegelgale

  • Safehost project
  • Trips to Tel Aviv (Bank Hapoalim) - fun at Hilton & eating out
  • Synthesis on Powerpoint
  • Fun day out


Cape Town

  • Rotanga Junction
  • Joanna and Steve's wedding (nookie!)
  • Survivor - all of it in one go


Africa

  • Serengeti and Crater
  • The big 5
  • The fever trees, the hogs
  • Lake Malawi
  • Victoria Falls
  • Dune 45 
  • Namib dunes & trees & Dead Vlei
  • Etosha
  • Zambezi rapids
  • Quad Biking
  • Zanzibar 


Nepal

  • Deep fried apple
  • Knight's Tale
  • Stillness in Himalayas
  • Sea Eagle
  • Lake Telicho
  • Chitwan  (73 birds, sloth bear, tiger in hiding)
  • Reading & meditating
  • Pokhara Lake
  • Muktinath stillness
  • Read Lord of the Rings
  • Sanjay and Grania


Tour leading

  • Being on a high
  • Felucca
  • Mud at Saklikent
  • Oludinez boat
  • Shona making move on me (cut off underpants!)
  • Niki in Istanbul
  • Jump off 2nd balcony (Luxor)
  • Paragliding in Turkey
  • Desert punch party in Syria


Volvo

  • Books on web design
  • Staying with Amanda and Johnathon
  • Norah Jones
  • Working on train on way to work (London to Cambridge)
  • Invincible at work (training, project site, manuals)
  • Pastry at Liverpool Station
  • Working on Template presentation at Gothenberg airport (making interactive)
  • Ribs and shandy at the John Barleycorn (the local pub in Duxford)
  • Staying over at "Auntie Lynda's" Duxford B&B
  • Train to Cambridge
  • Smaka restaurant
  • Amazing meals out in Gothenburg with expense account (that lamb!)
  • Training on CMS, template slides, CMS training document
  • Volvo Xmas dinner at Christ's college 2003
  • Trips to Gothenburg
  • Work Xmas dinner at Christ's college
  • Gratitude at getting my life back
  • Excel: summarising memories (train, in Brazil)
  • Trip to Brazil and The Iguazu Falls 
  • Trip to  North Carolina (Greensboro and Asheville)  and rafting
  • Meeting Nici in London: First time at restaurant & hotel, rollerblading, The Lion King show, bath


Movies


15 May 2000

Gratitude (London years: 2000 - 2003)

 

London life

  • Deciding to go to London to escape financial demons
  • Set me up for travel and Australia
  • Getting Hammersmith Grove apartment
  • My new computer
  • Having Ally's support (depression, tour-leading)
  • Keri's access to play tickets
  • Rollerblading
  • Touch rugby
  • Joanna, Colleen, Steve


Siegelgale

  • Getting the job
  • Newbie hired at same time as me: took some pressure off
  • Learned how to create presentations with a flow
  • Exposure to lovely, creative people: Peter, Anita, Aaron, Ken
  • Put onto Bank Hapoalim Project to be nurtured by Anita and Peter
  • Talie at Bank Hapoalim
  • Leaving when I did (not long before closed London office)


Africa

  • Deciding to go
  • Able to leave from Cape Town
  • Lovely group


Nepal

  • Decision to go
  • Meeting Dutch girl  - impetus to do it without using a guide
  • Meeting Nic, Sanjay and co
  • A chance to read spiritual books and connect to wonder and beauty


Middle east tour-leading

  • Oasis just happening to need a new leader when they did
  • Resigning which took all the pressure off
  • Donna and Garry
  • Offered South America leg (good for my confidence)
  • Shona and Nici


Volvo

  • Had Javed and Ken to give me a reference
  • Ken asked me to do some work and I impressed him (to get reference)
  • Sending my CV to Volvo
  • Getting the call from Matts
  • Caroline as a soul-mate
  • The great success of the project (great team)
  • Andrew Titley made me look good
  • CMS training person left and I took over (a thrived with it)
  • Volvo coming when it did (and the incredible renaissance it sprung)
  • Feeling so confident (on a grateful high)
  • Iguazu Falls, Asheville, Gothenburg


Spirituality

  • Rosemarie giving me Conversations with God - causing a whole new way of seeing God
  • Annapurna Circuit, especially the stillness at the lake, inspired by Deepak Chopra


Life Trove

  • Finding blogs when surfing which would later inspire Life Trove


1 May 2000

Insights (London years: 2000 - 2003)


Conversations with God (Neale Donald Walsch)

  • This moment is perfect, bring just miracles and angels
  • God is love and never judges.
  • Life is to announce, declare, express Who You Really Are
  • To experience Who You Are, you also must experience who you're not.
  • Life is about creating who you are in order to experience that.
  • I create my own meaning.
  • I create moments of grace.
  • I am love.
  • I am in a relative world of dark to expeience divinity (the candle.)   Curse not the darkness.
  • All paths lead to God
  • Each moment, I draw to myself the perfect people and situations.
  • I create through my choices.  Choose from love, not fear.
  • The highest authority for truth is in me.  Does it resonate within?
  • What they say doesn't need to be the truth.  It leads me to my own.
  • Relationships exist for me to decide what part of myself I want to experience and express.
  • Ask "What would love do now?"
  • What you wish to have, cause another to have.
  • Practice non judgement.
  • Pray from gratitude, not supplication



7 Laws of Spiritual Success (Deepak Chopra)

  • The power of stillness. "The world will roll in ecstacy at your feet."


31 March 2000

Spiritual moments (2000 - 2003)


Spirituality

  • Chi Gong, Thai Chi
  • Conversations with God in Nepal & Barbados
  • Landmark Forum
  • Resurgency of spirituality in Nepal
  • Deepak's power of stillness quote
  • Stillness by lake in Muktinah
  • Collecting reading quotes
  • Volvo gratitude at getting my life back


Moments

  • Olympus (Turkey) - overlooking the beach from the old ruin
  • Meditating by the lake in Chitwan
  • Meditating in Himalaya's - after climbing up the valley
  • The power of stillness (by lake in Himalayas)


Wisdom

  • Conversations with God: Read and summarise (Nepal, Barbados)
  • 7 Laws of Spiritual Success (Nepal)
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