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13 June 1997

Ireland

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From Post Cards



Wicklow, Ireland
We’re in Ireland after catching the night bus and ferry from London. Exhausting! Arrived in Dublin, hired a car (luxury after back packing) and drove through beautiful Wicklow mountains to a B& B. It’s fantastic to be with Ally – she’s also in 7th heaven.


Kilkenny
We visited this lovely town – Ireland’s finest Medieval city with gorgeous castle and cathedrals. We climbed the round tower of St Canice’s Cathedral (see top left photo) – took us half an hour because we met a large Italian school group coming down!

We arrived at this impressive hill top place in late afternoon and had a lovely walk. Ireland is more than living up to its reputation – great scenery with wonderful friendly people. I can see where Liz Twemlow inherited her sunny personality!


Blarney Castle, Ireland
Ally and I kissed the Blarney Stone today (see top right photo) so now we are officially blessed with the “gift of the gab”. Haven’t been able to stop talking since! It wasn’t easy – you have to kiss the stone backwards, suspended over a 100 feet drop for it to work.


Guinness
Mother’s milk this Guinness – and so many pubs to drink it in! We’ve already visited more than I can remember. Great pub food too – especially the Irish stew. Ally and I camped last night and tonight – very cheap and convenient. We’ve borrowed a fantastic tent from Ally’s aunt. All we need is a mattress! The little red Mazda is going like a bomb. Ally sends her love and says hi.


West Cork
We spent a day driving round the beautiful Beara Peninsula. Really remote (almost no tourists!) with very narrow, windy roads that follow the gorgeous cliffs and blue sea. Completely relaxing – except when you meet another car coming the other way! We stopped at Dunboy Castle, a derelict but very impressive ruin. Then drove to the peninsula’s most SW point – “Windy Point” where a cable car carries people (and sheep!) to Dursey Island. We stopped at a little restaurant where I bravely sampled black pudding (barley soaked in blood). Delicious if you don’t let the colour put you off!


Eeries
Isn’t this a beautiful village? Every house is a different colour. We stopped at the tiny petrol shop. In Ireland, like Britain, you pump your own gas. Inspired by the town, I’ve decided to paint my house purple as soon as I return.


Glengarriff
This is the town where we camped last night. Really nice camp site with its own pub and traditional music. It’s cool at night but my super down sleeping bag keeps us as snug as a bug.


Kerry
Today we explored the Kerry Peninsula –more beautiful cliffs and sea with quaint villages every couple of miles (all with more pubs than houses). We gave a lift to a wonderful 70 year old local farmer who regaled us with hearty stories. Also visited an ancient stone circle and hugged the rocks.


Dingle
This is the beautiful beach in Dingle that we lazed on for hours – soaking up some very welcome sun. The water was rather chilly so we didn’t venture a swim like some of the die-hard locals. The colour of the sea in Ireland is a magical turquoise and unbelievably calm – like something straight out of a postcard!

We’ve been spending a couple of days exploring the Dingle Peninsula. The weather improved a bit so we got to laze on some gorgeous beaches. We also went on a boat trip to see Fungi, Dingle’s friendly wild dolphin who lives in the bay (has done so for 14 years) and loves people – frolicking with swimmers and boats. He gave us a great show – hard to believe he is wild and catches all his own food.

There are some extra ordinary prehistoric buildings here in Dingle like this one – completely made of stone without any cement holding it together. Venturing inside is a real act of faith – you keep thinking it will collapse on you – yet stand it has since the 8th century.


Pub Life
Ally and I are absolutely relishing the pub life here in Ireland. The weather has been rather cool and raining, so we sometimes spend hours soaking up the atmosphere (and warmth) especially on evenings when we camp! Pub food is fantastic – the Irish are great cooks – particularly of Irish stew – huge bowls of steaming mutton. We’ve also become addicted to Irish coffee – and of course, lots and lots of Guinness. Pubs are always full of friendly locals wanting to know our life stories and often there is fantastic traditional Irish music. All in all a very warm and social experience.


Crag Cave
We visited Crag Cave on the way to the cliffs of Moher. Very impressive but not a scratch on the Cango Caves.


Blennerville
When I saw this I felt as though I was back in Holland. The Irish have lovingly restored this old windmill and we got to see all its internal workings. Tralee is famous as the port where 100’s of thousands of Irishmen launched off for America during the great potato famine in mid 1800’s.


Cliffs of Moher
I saw some very impressive cliffs in Wales and England but none so spectacular as these – the cliffs of Moher in W. Ireland. They soar 700 feet above a seething sea, with indescribable views and a network of paths to explore. AN awesome experience is to get on your belly and wriggle forwards to peer straight over the cliffs onto the rocks and sea below – gives you an adrenaline high for days. Gramps, I don’t think this would be your favourite pastime!

More views of the cliffs of Moher. The bird life here is awesome – guillemots, razorbills, puffins (all exotic sea birds I’ve always dreamed of seeing) next on the cliffs in easy view. I nearly dropped my binoculars over the cliff in my excitement.


The Burren
We passed through “the Burren” on the way to Donegal – an extraordinary lunar like landscape of rocky outcrops with a bit of hardy green grass poking through there and there. The weather has become spectacular – hot, sunny and completely still. We spent the entire morning lapping up the sunshine at the Cliffs of Moher and now we’re heading north, visiting several of the beaches on the way. The water is cold but hasn’t stopped us from swimming. We’re feeling very summery and slightly sunburnt. You’ll be glad to hear we’ll be giving Northern Ireland a miss – all hell has broken loose there with the Orange Grove marches.

More stunning coast line and scenery. It never seems to end. Fantastic beaches all the way – it’s so difficult deciding which ones to stay at – they are all so enticing. There are very few tourists here so we often have a place to ourselves. The locals are as friendly as ever.


Rosgull
We’ve arrived at one of the most scenic peninsulas in all of Ireland – Rosgull. Exquisite beaches. The weather continues to be fantastic so we are in seventh heaven. The beach in the postcard photo was one of our “lazy stops” on our journey along the “Atlantic Drive”.


Our very own castle
We stopped off at this stunning forest park on our long trip from Donegal to Dublin. We noticed an ancient castle ruin on one of the islands so hired a boat and rowed out to it. Beautiful, solitary and very romantic.


End of our trip
Here is the complete journey that we’ve made through Ireland. As you’ve probably fathered, we had an awesome time. Ireland is a friendly and beautiful country that I could visit over and over. Of course, having Ally with me was a wonderful treat. I am really going to miss her in Israel.

We spent our last day in Dublin. Tomorrow it’s back to London. I can’t believe how two weeks has flown! We’ve just got back from visiting the Guinness Factory to see how God’s nectar is brewed. Got to taste lots of free samples. Mum, Ally has put the book you gave her to good use – keeping a fantastic journal of our trip.



Letter dated 14 July 1997

Dear Jill, Jo, Antony, Tony and Dorothy

We got back from Ireland last night with heavy hearts but were cheered up with a letter from Tony and Dorothy.

We had such a wonderful holiday. Ireland is the most magical country. I have again done a travel diary that I will send to you shortly, telling of all our adventures. The only benefit of being home is sleeping in a bed. The ground sure is hard when camping!

The scenery in Ireland is breathtaking. I am sure you’ve seen in the postcards that Graeme has sent. I could easily have spent a couple of months taking all of Ireland in.

There were two highlights for me. One was standing at the top of the Cliffs of Moher looking down. It made me feel so humble and put such perspective on life. The view restores the spirit.

The second highlight was visiting the Lough Key Forest Park where we were able to row across the lake and explore a ruined castle all by ourselves. Vines were growing in the arches of the windows and the rain was dripping through. We could imagine how all the rooms must have looked full of riches and warmth. It was so romantic and like a real life fantasy to explore one’s own castle.

Sadly it was back to work this morning for a two week post and after that, who knows? I am starting to get used to starting new jobs. I wasn’t even nervous, I could hardly believe it. I have to learn the names of 150 accountant trainees. Scary when at the end of Std 8 I still couldn’t name all 150 of my school mates!

Graeme is all geared up for his trip to the Middle East. He has gone to the Egyptian Embassy this morning to get his visa. Hopefully it won’t take too long as he flies out on Thursday.

We really miss not being able to come home and tell you all about it straight away and show you the pictures. Graeme and I talk about you often because we miss you all so much.

I will send the book and the pictures as soon as I can. I am using someone else’s email as I will not get one because I am only here for a short time. It will have the same format address, only the name is different.

Speak to you all soon and I hope all is well.

All my love Ally




Travel Notes
  • Catch night bus and ferry to Dublin with Ally. Arrive at 7 am in morning. Then hire a nippy, little Mazda. Frank and Helen, of the rental company, very friendly - full of coffee and tips.
  • Sat 28, drive through the Wicklow mountains in windy weather to a luxurious B&B. Much needed sleep, then to a pub to watch Springboks lose (only just) to Lions. Heartbreaking stuff. Great lamb chop supper at pub. Relaxing evening walk through a forest park to a river.
  • Sun 29, drive to Kilkenny, Ireland's finest medieval city. Visit St Canice's Cathedral (climb the round-tower and meet Italian school group coming down and see nun's underwear) and view impressive castle. Then to Rock of Cashel in Tipperary - for a scenic walk around the rocky hill. Drive to Cahir where we camp. Pick strawberries, play tennis and pool with Dutch guys. ( I should take up tennis!) Tent brilliant (Ally showed how to put it up) but ground hard!
  • Mon 30, to Blarney Castle where we kiss the stone, suspended backwards over a 100 foot drop - all for the gift of the gab. Wonderful direlect castle with warren of tunnels and rooms. Best Irish stew ever at Mackey's, then a sleep in the gardens. Drive to camp site at Glengarriff through scenic valleys. Guiness and traditional Irish songs at the camp-pub.
  • Tues 31, late rainy get-up. Terrible lunch of watery stew. But delicious pecan nut and maple pasty from Spa. Drive along the beautiful and remote (untouristy!) Ring of Beara. Visit Dunboy Castle, a massive direlect mansion, and an old fort. Scout camp. Then to the peninsula's SW point (Windy Point). Views of cable car crossing to Dursey Island. Stay in B&B with gorgeous views of sea. To village of Allihaes for ommelette supper.
  • Impressions: radio announcement "sheepdog puppies missing.", small town gossiping, narrow and windy lanes, villages with multi-coloured houses, pubs at every turn, great traditional Irish music, tall glasses of delicious guiness, sheep with colourful ink markings, wind and rain, friendly locals always waving and smiling, so proud of Ireland, craaking crows waking us up.
  • Wed 1, a hearty Irish breakfast (including Black Pudding!) Then drove through Ring of Kerry - more beautiful cliffs and sea, with quaint little villages. Picked up Dan O'Shea, a sweet old farmer.
  • Visited a stone circle and hugged the rocks. Energy buzz!
  • Stopped for a read and pint in "Dan Murphy's Pub" in Sneem. Set camp in little town. Delicious roast pork dinner and Irish coffee in local pub.
  • Thurs 2, late rainy get up. Weather grey as we drive to Dingle Peninsula. Lucky escape from bulldozer and bus. Walk on Inch Beach. Arrive in Dingle for a great Irish stew, followed by an afternoon of sleep. Then chicken supper from supermarket (yum!) and to local pub for Irish coffee, post cards and reading. Young musicians with their Dad. Fantastic pub.
  • Fri 3/7, weather much better. Try. Then great lunch from supermarket. Catch boat to watch Fungi, the resident wild dolphin. Most famous wild, friendly dolphin in Europe. Does not seem to tire of the incessant stream of boats that go out to vie for his attention. Then drive to see prehistoric huts of dry stone (venturing in is act of pure faith - altho some have stood since 8th century.) Then laze on the beach at Slea Head where meet friendly Zimbabwe couple. Then sit on cliff and admire view, To pub to relax and write postcards. (more Irish coffee!) Drum mad musicians spoil it a bit - all family banging away including 5 year old!
  • Sat 4, fantastic weather. Lazed on beach at Slea Head. To pub to watch Springboks beat Lions - 3rd time lucky. To Gallarus Oratury, an 8th century stone building. Cow dung on car. Started motion meditation again (3rd night) - really good.
  • Amazing meditation on clifflet overlookin beach and sea under the stars.
  • Sun 5, drive to Blennerville Windmill and Crag cave. Then on to Cliffs of Moher - spiritual stuff. Lie on edge and peer over. Walk along cliffs and see Puffins through a telescope. To pub to read and relax.
  • Mon 6, to delicious bistro for breakfast. Ally and I very close. To Cliffs of Moher to see birds thru binoculars. Thick mist chases us back to camp to do washing and play cards at pub.
  • Tues 7, weather is awesome. Spend spiritual morning at Cliffs of Moher. Food for the soul. Sit with feet over edge of mighty drop, feeling refreshing breeze, watching the seething ocean and thousands of flying fulmars. Then drive over the lunar landscape of The Barrow to Sligo.
  • Wed 8, drive through Donnegal peninsula. Stop off at beaches to laze in gorgeous sun. Relaxing day, very untouristy.
  • Thurs 9, we do the Atlantic drive. Eat seafood for lunch. Huge night storm - tent could easily have landed in a lake. Arrived back to find lakes after sitting in pub.
  • Fri 10, spontaneously visit a forest park. We row out to an Island Castle. Height of romance. Feel spiritual beauty of Island. Camp en route to Dublin. Rope tugging contest.
  • Sat 11, arrive in Dublin. Visit Guiness Brewery.
  • Sun 12, catch bus back to London.



Ally's Journal

For every beginning there has to be an end and the end this time was working for IT Purchasing. Sadly I leave behind friends whom I used to see every day. I will really miss them but I know we will keep in contact.

The beginning is Graeme and my trip to pick four leaf clovers and walk along the great cliffs of Ireland. We left on a rainy evening with our clothes on our back and our house under our arms – we were all set to brave the rainy shores of the green, green Isle.


29th

As we arrived the weather was o.k. which was a surprise. Frank (the car hire man) picked us up and treated us to coffee which was our first taste of Irish hospitality. He couldn’t give us enough hints and tell us all the great places to go – so we left with great excitement.

We headed off into the Wicklow Mt. There were natural forests on both sides of the road with rivers flowing. Natural brown rivers as back home. We made our way past Glendalough but sadly missed out on the medieval tower. In a little village called Rathdrum we found a B&B – we decided not to rough it on the 1st night.

After an afternoon sleep we went to the local to watch the Lions vs Bokke. We were eaten alive. A sad day for the world champs – our hearts were broken. I hope that with the next test match we will be able to regain some of our rugby strength. I’ll bet Mike is hitting those Fosters again. We had a lovely 3hr walk in the forest – Avondale Forest. We talked about everything and nothing.


30th

In the morning we woke up to clear skies and Mary set us off with an extremely full tummy. Those Irish breakfasts are not to be taken lightly.

We set off for Kilkenny. The best medieval city in Ireland. The streets were narrow and all buildings and walls from different centuries.

We walked round the castle then went to St Canice’s Cathedral. We climbed the tower and Graeme had full view under a nun’s skirt before he knew what was happening – which reminds me, the man bought home a pair of female’s underwear from Amsterdam which he was unable to explain. Ummmm!

After smelling the roses and picking Shamrock we hopped in noddy and went on our merry way to Cashel.

We visited the Rock of Cashel which was important for kind of old Ireland and St Patrick. We walked all around and heard the sheep having their own conversation. They were so funny just baa, baaing away.

We saw the most amazing church which had mosaics on the outside. It looked so bright and cheerful, I had to go in. I loved the whole church there was no doom & gloom.

We decided to make our way to Cahir from there so that we were close to Cork. I looked for the closest camp site which was “The Apple”.

After erecting our house for the first time we went on to pick strawberries – absolutely delicious. The definitely taste better.

We moved on to a game of tennis. Graeme and I played two dutch guys and Graeme is unbelievable. He can play just about any sport well. We were all huffing & puffing by the end.

To cool off we played pool. Graeme and I did very well. We are going to work on our technique – hopefully we can become a reasonable team. We’ll have to see how much practice we get in this holiday.

We woke up late and went in search of the Blarney Stone. To kiss the stone one has to grasp the iron railings backwards while lying on your back – with a 100 ft drop. But we managed. Now we are waiting for the “gift of the gab” to hit us.

At Blarney we had the most fantastic irish stew. It will live in our memories. While exploring the Castle, Graeme went into this dark cave while a little boy followed him. Graeme started to make grrr noises and the boy got such a fright he ran out telling his mum there was an animal in the case.

Graeme & I think that Blarney Castle is one of the best castles we have been to.

After a sleep on the castle lawn we proceeded to drive down the narrowest lanes with beautiful lakes down the side of the valleys.

We slowly made our way to the coast, to Glengarriff. I was so excited to see the sea. The waves breaking against the rock. We found a wonderful campsite. We put up our house and went for a Gui8nness in the local pub. Much to our delight they were singing songs and playing traditional music. We spend about 2 hrs there. I would have loved for Teresa, Helen & Eileen to have been there. They would have loved it. I don’t think any other pub is going to be the same again.


2nd

Upon walking up we could swear the ground gets harder and we get hungrier. We made our way into town and had the worst irish stew that could be imagined. We had to go to the Spar and get something else to eat. Graeme discovered these pastries with maples and almonds. I can see us looking for them wherever we go.

We set off along the Beara Peninsula. Although little travelled by tourists, it is spectacular.

Our first port of call was Adrigole where we tried to visit the highest waterfall in Ireland. After trekking through boggy land we saw that the water was a mere trickle and not very high, we went back. Apparently it is better in winter. Quite how it would be better frozen than after it has been raining solid for 4 weeks, is hard to understand. Perhaps it is a little irish logic.

We passed through Castle Townbere and went to visit Dunboy Castle. It was more of a mansion that had been destroyed by fire in 1920. It seemed so sad that such a beautiful house should be destroyed.

Making our way further down to Dursey Island, we saw some of the best scenery. I think that this is one of the best parts of Ireland. They have a cable way joining the island and mainland. We read how the English became in 1602 and slaughtered all the islanders by throwing them off the cliffs and in earlier times how the Vikings held the irish slaves on the island. Such a tragic past for such a beautiful place. It is now a bird sanctuary for rare migrating birds.

Everybody we drove past had a friendly wave and smile – even if we were just inches away from scratching their car in the these narrow lanes. We stopped at this coffee shop for scones & cream and decided to stay the night. The idea of camping on hard ground in the rain and wind was not very appealing. We are looking forward to making our way round the Ring of Kerry tomorrow.

The Lebor Gabala has it that when the Milesians, the first invaders of the island about 2,000BC made their landfall on the far west of the Beara Peninsula, it was necessary for their bard, Amergin, to chant the land into existence, so that they could set foot on shore.

“I am wind on sea, I am wave in storm, I am sea sound, I am hawk on cliff, A word of art, A piercing point that pours out range, The god who fashions fire in the head, Who if not I?”

Four thousand turbulent years later, there is still the sense of a world new made, new found here. There is a sense in which all those who come to the far west of Beara discover it, make it, and find it, for themselves. Its beauty is unspoiled, its wildness untamed, and the flash of the sea at this land’s end is also its beginning.

* the Book of Invasions of Ireland


3rd

We set off early this morning in hope of reaching the Dingle Peninsula but it does not look like we are going to make it. The weather is terrible and we feel cheated out of seeing the wonderful views.

All the villages we pass through have their houses painted different colours – perhaps it is for the fishermen – they can see their house out at sea. It makes them feel warm with that chilly wind blowing through them.

I forgot to mention that we stopped at a stone circle – one of the hundreds around the country. We hugged rocks and added our offering to the many who had made one before us.

We decided to camp tonight despite the clouds in the sky so we headed round The Ring.

On our way to Kenmare we picked up an old gentleman who was so proud of “his” youngsters who had played in the soccer against Argentina. He was so proud to be Irish. He farmed by himself with a dog and cat for company and he is 69 years old. Bless him!

The Ring of Kerry is beautifully but I thought Beara was more scenic. Much more unspoiled. We are camping tonight at Glenleigh, a very ugly campsite which is very unfriendly. We all have to have stickers on our tents to make sure we aren’t free loaders – really !

We have just had a most delicious beef stew at the local pub as well as a few irish coffees. We will definitely be warm tonight when we crawl into our very hard bed.

Sleep tight!

PS: I forgot to mention that we tried black pudding. It tastes like a spicy sausage but the thought of it still puts me off.


4th

We woke up to the sound of the rain hitting our tent and the graak, graak of the crows. The crows are really most annoying.


Irish Stew Recipe:

900grams mutton
570grams potatoes
85grams flour
4 onions
750ml stock
2Tsp chopped parsley
Carrots & Barley

Trim mutton and coat with flour in casserole and cover with stock. Simmer for 40 mins. Peel, cut and slice onions. Layer onions and parsley on bottom & simmer for 1-1½ hrs. Serve: take our potatoes and serve up meat. Put potatoes on top of meat and parsley.

We drove through the Ring of Kerry at a hectic pace and now we want to see all there is to see on Dingle.

We shook all the rain from our tent and went on our way from Glendeigh straight to Dingle. Our only stop was at Inch beach. A long sandy beach on a mini peninsula jutting out from Dingle peninsula. It was rather like Fishock but no waves. I haven’t seen one beach with waves here – we thought this might be from the lack of currents meeting each other.

We arrived in Dingle and headed straight for Adams bar and had irish stew. This is tarting to become a daily ritual. It’s one of the few ways to keep warm in this weather. The wind seems to blow right through us. After lunch we pitched our tent and decided to go for a midday sleep for ½ hr. Waking up 4 hrs later was a bit of a shock. And our tummies being what they are, told us it was late. We went in search of the delicious maple & pecan nut pastry. Sadly all were sold out.

We have come to a bar in a village right on the coast. There are about 10 houses and a huge pub. This seems about standard – never mind the grocery shop. There must be a pub. In every pub there is a singer who has songs at his fingertips. I have never imagined a place where so many can sing and play the guitar. The irish take such pride in their music. I love the atmosphere it creates.

We chatted to the girl who is 18 and plays the accordion and she lives in a village called Castlegregory. She told us that on the Dingle Peninsula there are 52 pubs – just about more than houses. The pub we were in is the closest to America – so the next stop is New York. We won’t be going there tomorrow. Frank’s car is not in the James Bond league.

The Blasket Islands are at the edge of the Peninsula and seem to be quite barren. They used to support a fishing community until 1954. Graeme & I sat on the cliff edge looking over them and picking wild flowers, watching the sun set. Of course, we managed to step on my glasses so now they are minus an arm – surprise, surprise.


5th

Our 1st day on the Dingle Peninsula to explore. Again, we woke up late – we are going to have to stop that. Off course, we went into town searching for the eternal maple & pecan pastry.

After a very shaky start trying to book G’s bus ticket back, we decided to go se Fungi the dolphin who lives in the bay.

He was wonderful. We saw him jumping through the glittering water blowing his air. He came right next to the boat. Although he lives in the bay, he is wild and he won’t take food from anybody. Sometimes he will bring a wild salmon to the boats. He loves to dive and frolic around for us open mouthed tourists. At the moment he has a friend called Smokey who has been there for about 2 weeks. But she is a lot shyer than Fungi. We think she is his girlfriend (us romantics!). After seeing Fungi we went round the Peninsula and passed these Beehive hut signs. I thought they would be old places where bees were bred. I couldn’t have been more mistaken. These were ancient family houses for the free farmers. Standing inside is quite scary because you know that there is nothing but stone holding them up (no cement) so you keep thinking the roof is going to cave in. The fact that they have stood for sometimes over 2,000 yrs is little comfort.

Ringforts are the most numerous and widespread field monuments in Ireland. These sites were commonly referred to by the terms Fort, rath, lios, cathair or caiseal, the individual site names often incorporating one or other of these terms.

The majority of these were enclosed farmsteads of the free farmers of the Early Christian Period, the banks and fosses acting as a fence to prevent livestock from straying and to protect against cattle raiders and wild animals. The small size of the sites suggests they were occupied by a single family, the houses, farm buildings and storage places occurring within the closed space. They would have been inhabited from ancient times to 1200AD.

These huts were often found attached to each other with a doorway leading from one to the other. These houses were generally made of stone because stone was plentiful. They were generally round like a beehive and a special type of craftsmanship is apparent in the building. They were erected in the form of a circle of successive strata of stone, each stratum lying a little closer to the centre than the one beneath and so on upwards until only a small aperture is left a the top which can be closed with a single small flagstone or capstone. No mortar was used in building. The stones have a downward and outward tilt so as to shed the water. This method of building is called corbelling.

Making our way round we came to Stea Head where we tried to pet some lamberts but they were too interested in butting their mums. On Stea beach we had a little sleep and on our way up we met a lovely Zim couple. They have retired and are now travelling for 6 months. What an inspiration. Just shows one that age is all in the mind.

We have come back to the same bar (just before America) and they are playing the most awful thump thump music. Time for a quick irish before sweet dreams.


6th

This we had promised would be a lazy day so we headed to Supa Value and bought our daily bread and made our way to Shea Head where we had been yesterday. We spent the whole day soaking up the sun. The weather had finally decided to give us a good day.

A quick sleep was in order after a cooling off in the wonderful but cool water then off to watch our bokke slaughter the lions 35-16. It lifted our spirits totally. We had to fit some culture into the day and that was seeing the Gallarus Oratory. An 8th century building - probably for a monk. Every stone has stood in its place for 1200 years. It always makes me wonder what our buildings will look like in 1200 years. Unfortunately in our excitement to get there, we drove into a huge mound of cow dung but didn’t discover this until we got back into the campsite and it finally made sense why the flies loved us so much !


7th

After 13 hrs of sleep we managed to rouse ourselves for a smoked salmon roll for breakfast – yumm! A quick 10 min to pack up our house and we were off. Making our way to the Cliffs of Mokeur.

Our first stop along the way was Blennerville Windmill. It had fallen into disrepair and in 1950 was being used as a piggery. But in 1984 it was restored and is now fully functional. So interesting to see after seeing the modern mill my dad worked for, for Snowflake flour.

Blennerville, Tralee, CO. Kerry
The windmill lies at the gateway of the Pen. Built in 1780 and restored in 1984, it is 21m high.

It was from this port that many immigrants left during the great famine in 1854. As the peasants were subsistent farmers, after 1 crop failure there was great starvation. One million people died and one million immigrated to America. If they went on a ship the journey usually lasted 30 days and they were expected to take their own food. Where they were expected to get this ford from during a famine is anybody’s guess.

At a craft shop we saw the most amazing work. Incredibly simple sculptures made from rods of iron & copper. I was very tempted. The artist had made on in sterling silver of the immigrant ship Jeanie Johnson and presented it to Bill Clinton. He also used the Celtic circle which is a symbol of man’s journey through life. Both the ups and downs which must be experienced before one can appreciate life.

Our second stop was Crag Cave which does not have a patch on Congo but is nevertheless impressive. The guide who took us had a constant cold from the change in temperature after giving 8 tours per day. They have named all their stalag’s although there is one very rude one which was skipped over but G could not help bringing it to everybody’s attention!

We carried on driving and passed through many villages but our curiosity was aroused when we saw that outside just about every house there was a flag flying. So we took a bet, I thought it was as a soccer match and G thought it was something to do with the Orange march. Like typical tourists, we rolled down our window and asked a local – with great mirth they told us it was a hurling match (played with sticks and a ball). We decided that G would be buying the irish coffee’s as he was the farthest from the answer. And believe me, they were the best we have tasted so far.

We found a campsite which was not the best but at only £4.00 nobody expects Buckingham Palace. After a delicious cheese roll we made our way to have the first glimpse of Moher. Anybody who has been there will know it is futile to try and put it into words. Instead I will let the pictures speak for themselves.

The cliffs of Moher are 200m high and stretch for 5 miles. Graeme & I watched the sunset over these cliffs. It was a silent moment.

Lying on our stomachs we threw a rock over the side to measure how high the cliffs were and came up with 180m. WE went for a short walk along the cliffs and had to go through a field with a great big bull. This proved to be no problem as he was more interested in an equally huge grass eating cow. Judging by the number of calves around, he was a very busy bull.

Graeme did a very manly show of pretending to be a bull, while on the opposite side of a fence stood a very young bull. Putting them in the same field, I doubt wether the same show would have been acted.


8th

Upon seeing the grey skies yet again, I began to wonder if these blue skied postcards are all a lie for us unsuspecting tourists.

We made our way to Lahnich but sadly no maple pecan nut pastry. We saw a very brave bloke take a swim, brrr, it must have been about 10 degrees. The beach is called a surfing beach but somehow I don’t think the waves inspire much surfing. It is a lovely beach to walk along.

Lahnich

Shoals of shadows, swards of green, the West of Ireland, a coastal scene.
Foreshore sounds, tidal tones, ebb and flow over strand and stones.
By Liscannor way and surfing seas 18 greens, fairways and tees.
Sheltered by dunes, shoulders of sand, the lure of Lahnich, the lie of the land.
Two famous holes, Klondyke and Dell, framed in failure or inspired spell.
Testing, arresting, impeccable host, glorious links on Ireland’s coast.

Extract from “Lahnich” by PJC.

We went along to the cliffs hoping to walk along them, but it was so misty that one could barely see our hands in front of our faces. We were so glad we went yesterday. We felt so sorry for those people who could only come today because they would have seen nothing.

We hoped the mist would clear but sadly not so, it turned into an admin day – the washing. The height of boredom.


9th

The gods were smiling this morning when we woke up so we couldn’t resist another look at the cliffs.

Graeme and I looked over the edge. We had to lie down because it’s too scary to stand.

We had a clear view and we walked across the tops. We saw puffins at the bottom. They burrow into the grass bank to make a nest. Apparently during mating season their beaks grow longer. Each stripe makes them more attractive.

We found a wonderful grassy patch and lay down letting the scenery enter our soul and relax our spirit. We fell asleep and woke up feeling like we had been on a 10 week cruise. We were so relaxed – all the colours seemed brighter and the bird calls clearer. G & I both agree the cliffs are one of the best soul meals available. It is impossible to have too much.

Reluctantly we had to leave to make our way up north. We passed the Burren on the way – it was not a town but a certain geographical feature of just this part of Ireland. Made from limestone, there is very little vegetation so for the first time since being in Ireland, there are no sheep. We took a walk and went to the edge. The sea had made caves in the side and G went exploring. We also saw this family who were cycling – Mum, Dad & Kid. The kid was in this little car carrier attached to the bike. It looked very idyllic but on these narrow roads, a tad dangerous. We continued making our way to Silgo. Poor G had to drive and drive. At least we found a good radio station that were doing a poll on returning Northern Ireland to the republic. There were so many divided opinions. As we neared our campsite we were stopped at a road block (we were near the Northern Ireland border) and they were taking down everybody’s number plate details. They didn’t take ours because we were tourists. They are having such problems with the Orange men marches it will be interesting to see what happens.

As we got to the campsite it was too late to go for an irish, so we went for a walk by the beach. The moon was rising, the sky was purple and pink and we instantly felt relaxed.


10th

The gods were again smiling on us and we woke up in great spirits. We had a very luxurious shower and G surprised me by taking down the tent while I was in the shower. He is so wonderful.

We drove through many seaside towns and stopped at one beach to have a picnic. We found a feather similar to the one we found the first night we met. Somehow it felt different, a bit ticklish. I guess it would be difficult to recapture the magic of the first night we met.

We stopped and had a wonderful picnic on the beach. It felt great to have the sun on our faces.

We drove to Donegal Town and it is a lovely town. We stopped and I phoned to get a job. It’s perfect for two weeks, so I can sort my CV out when I get home. IN a place like this home seems so far away.

We drove on further and found a wonderful beach where the water was too delicious to miss. We just had to swim. There was a huge jelly fish in the water. After a lovely walk we went on. WE started to feel all fall down so we stoped at a beach and had a sleep in the car. It was delicious. Hot with a cooling breeze. 2 hrs later we woke up and decided to go for another swim and G had to jump off the rocks. Getting out of the car I stood on stinging nettles – my foot stang for about 3 hours afterward and grew little blisters. They may not have dangerous animals here, but their plants are another matter.

We decided to travel around the next peninsula a look for a camp site as there were no official ones in the area. On the Pen we got very lost and a little anxious when we went along roads that were totally unpopulated – neither people nor animals. We were very relieved when we found a village only to find we had come full circle. We ended up travelling for another hour before we had to retrace our steps. Eventually, at 10pm we found a place and were very relieved, only to find that we had lost a hubcap along the way.

So what started out as a wonderful day ended up as one of those Monday like days when one should have stayed in bed.

Just about everywhere you go in Donegal you see Errigal Mountain. We were lost we passed it about five times. Graeme’s comment was “not this f _____ mountain again !”

But we do not go to sleep with heavy hearts. In the Co. Donegal we have seen some of our best scenery. The mountains with the long long beaches. In many ways it reminds us of Cape Town.


11th

We woke up this morning at 8:00am and it was too hot in the tent (a real treat). So went and slept outside for an hour before the rest of the campsite woke.

The shower before we set off was great only the pressure was so high that you couldn’t stand under it. There was a little kid who’s mum put them under the jet spray and they ended up screaming the place down.

Making our merry way to Rosgmill Pen we stopped at a little village and had breakfast on the pier watching a very brave lady windsurfing with no wind.

Having decided to have a restful day we took a short drive just to Rosgmill Pen and went on the Atlantic Drive. The scenery was without question breathtaking. We kept stepping and walking along the beaches. G had a great time pushing all my buttons, teasing me about everything. One day I will learn how to push his.

After our drive we found our campsite in Downings and went for a seafood lunch. Delicious salmon that was swimming around yesterday quite happily minding its own business. At the shop next door we met an old man who had been to C.T. To digest our lunch a lie on the beach was a must. As the afternoon wore on the clouds gathered across the skies. But we were chased off the beach by these obnoxious people who insisted on playing their music full blast. I will never understand some people.

We managed to put up our tent just before the downpour started. God was definitely throwing all his furniture down his stairs.

Afterwards we went for a walk along the beach and up a cliff path only my shoes were so slippery I nearly ended up swimming. So we had to come back early and thank goodness. We would have been two very miserable wet souls if we had walked on.

So it was dinner, and bed time. We were again undercharged for dinner. Amazing how often it has happened.

This page is dedicated to all those millions of lamberts. None of them would let me pat them but I would really love to hold a lamb one day. I am going to miss their baas every time I get out of the car.

We woke up today after the most terrible thunderstorms. We had to move our tent in the middle of the night otherwise we would have been soaked when we saw where the tent was we were relieved we moved as there was a lake.

Today is my dad’s birthday so I spare a thought for him. I know Dad would love Ireland. The friendly people, the stunning scenery, the history and last but not least the Guinness.

We made a tough decision today – to go to Buncrana or not. The weather was terrible and time was limited but we decided to talk to the police. It was very close to the Northern Ireland border and they were unsure of the mood of the Orange Men. It was very sad but we will get there one day. This country is definitely a place I want to come back to.

Retracing our steps through Donegal & Silgo we turned and headed towards Boyle. Just by chance we decided to stop at Lough Key Forest Park. It turned out of the one of the highlights of our trip.

We went for a short walk and climbed a tower to survey the view. At the top we noticed a ruined castle on an island in the middle of the lake. The thing that was so wonderful is that there was nobody there. So we hired a row boat and went exploring our very own ruined castle. It was a fantasy come true. We climbed out of the boat and walked around and through the archways and walls. We saw the ovens in the kitchen and the fireplaces. This castle is one of the most spiritual and romantic we have ever been to. We left a piece of ourselves behind.

When we landed back on mainland the lifeguard told us that the castle had one been hit by lightning and killed 140 soldiers – unbelievable!

It was with heavy hearts we continued our journey to Dublin. We stopped to spend a night about 90km outside of Dublin in a place called Mullingalar. Guinness was having a roadshow festival and we saw a tug of war competition. One of the teams was a local one but unfortunately they lost. They obviously had not been drinking enough Guinness!

We put up our tent for the last time and got the shock of our lives when, from underneath, came this loud croak and a hop hop hop along the tent and a huge frog appeared. Very indignant that we had chosen his spot.

We had dinner at a chippie and a very good conversation about drugs, prostitution and all the other controversial topics. We enjoyed playing the devils advocate.


12th

Our last day on the green isle. We packed up our tent for the last time and headed towards Dublin. The city of Guinness.

We booked our night at the youth hostel. My first experience. It was a private hostel so there were no rules as such. It proved to be a very interesting experience and not one I would care to repeat in the near future. All I will say is that some people are unbelievable!

Anyway, we returned our car and they didn’t charge us for the missing hub cap, much to our surprise and delight. They are such nice people. I would recommend them to anybody in Ireland.

After returning our car we made our way to the Guinness Showroom and had a look at the very interesting exhibition they had. Interesting that they only use 4 ingredients – water, barley, hops and yeast. Also that the process has not changed in 200 years. As you walking the hall the smell (as G put it) of dirty feet hits the nostrils and it is the hops that one can still smell – 40 years after the hall had ceased being a hops store.

It made us really appreciate that pint we were given at the courtesy bar.

For our last night we decided to celebrate in style and went out for a delicious irish stew. It was the best way to leave Ireland with a full stomach and a light heart.

G & I had both been feeling low at the thought of the end of our holiday.

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It is now a few days since we have come back. Settling into a routine has been difficult as our minds keep drifting back to Ireland. We even miss the hard ground of camping.

But of course all things come to an end so now we wait until the beginning of our next adventure.

Graeme is going off to Greece and the Middle East so his adventure starts soon. Floating on the Dead Sea is one of his highlights.

Time for goodbye but as the French say – au revoir… until next time … until the next beginning!


Next stop:

Holland

13 May 1997

SW ENGLAND, WALES AND SCOTLAND


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From Post Cards

Stratford Upon Avon

We’ve just spent a wonderful weekend with Ally’s aunt in Coventry – she’s a real “sweetie” and sent us home with tonnes of biscuits. We visited Stratford Upon Avon nearby. On Friday I leave for Wales and S.W. England and am very excited to explore. I’ll let you know about all my experiences.

Land’s End
I’ve just arrived at Land’s End, England’s version of our Cape Agulhas – after an invigorating 7 mile hike from the youth hotels in St. Just. Cornwall is absolutely gorgeous – high cliffs and churning seas. I’m having the time of my life.

Cornwall
Greetings from Cornwall. Very chilly but drop dead gorgeous with spectacular views from high sea cliffs. I’m really enjoying the youth hostels. Am meeting so many wonderful people.

Penzance, Cornwall
This is the beautiful town of Penzance. Home of the best fudge and cream and scones I have ever tasted. Cornwall and Devon are the cream tea capitals of the world apparently. A great place to stay if you want to put on weight – think I’ll stay at least a month!

St Michael’s Mount
Isn’t this the most beautiful castle you’ve ever seen? I walked across the pathway to visit it just now and then had to catch a boat back because the tide had risen. I’m waiting for the bus back to the youth hostel – tomorrow I think I’m going to start making my way east into Devon country. Decisions, decisions.

Dartmouth
This is the beautiful little seaside resort of Dartmouth. I hiked here early this morning along the river forests. I visited the most beautiful castle right on the estuary mouth and gorged myself again on Devon clotted cream and scones. Delicious!

I’m sure I’ve been on this steam train through Devon before, because I keep on getting strong feelings of de-ja-vu. Devon is stunning with green lush hills and the bluest ocean I’ve ever seen. I’m staying in a youth hostel near Brixham high in the hills above the Dartmoor River.

Slapton Sands
From Dartmouth, I made my way down to Kingsbridge. On the way I passed this beach. It was used in the 2nd World War as a training spot for the D Day landings. They found a submerged tank in the sea a few years back – the fishermen kept snagging their lines in it!

Pembrokeshire Coast – South West Wales
I spent two glorious days exploring the magnificent Pembrokeshire Coast of South West Wales. Long hikes along sandy beaches and huge cliffs. I went on a boat trip to see birds on Ramsey Island Nature Reserve – saw thousands of breeding birds and seals. I met a really friendly English girl with a mini (rather cramped) but a great way to see parts of the park I couldn’t walk to.

I hiked 12 miles along these cliffs. Every so often there would be a secret cove to explore. Isolated and beautiful. I accidentally stumbled on a couple swimming nude – much to our mutual embarrassment!

Salcombe
I stayed at this gorgeous little seaside village for 3 nights, spending lazy days exploring the coast either side. The youth hostel was situated in a sub tropical garden with awesome views from a high cliff.

Bristol
I spent a very enjoyable afternoon and night in Bristol viewing all the city sights. Had my first experience of a youth hostel in a large city – much busier and fuller! I went to see a very scary late night movie – the walk back to the hostel through dark alleys was scarier!

Bath
These are the Roman Baths in Bath. The water is still hot and steaming from the hot spring. If it hadn’t been so green, I would have felt tempted to jump in. For 50 pence you could drink the natural spring water but it was warm and smelled of rotten eggs so I declined and had a coke instead.
What a stunning place. The Romans built an amazing ancient bath here making use of the hot spring in the city. Spent two fantastic days here exploring – the most stunning Georgian architecture I’ve ever seen and great museums and abbeys. I stayed at Back Packers, much more permissive than youth hostels – mixed dorms and raucous parties!

Wiltshire
I used Bath as a springboard to explore Wiltshire. Had great views of Stonehenge and the Avebury Stone Circle. Eerie to think they were built + 5,000 years ago with nothing but hands, ropes and pulleys. Visited a little bar in Lacock Village with an old dog wheel – dog power to drive the boiler – did not approve!

Would you believe this – built by prehistoric people with nothing but deer antlers for spades. Over a million hours of work! And there is nothing in it – no tomb, nothing. Seems like a bit of a waste of effort, really. Some learned professors think it’s a fertility monument of a woman’s pregnant tummy – used for prehistoric orgies in May. Interesting!

Castle Combe
I’ve discovered paradise – a quaint 15th century village, voted the most beautiful village in England in 1962 and set of Dr Dolittle movie in 1967. Exquisite little cottages and a church but not cheap to live here – the smallest cottage sells for 300,000 pounds!

I was walking past this really old cathedral and I heard beautiful singing from inside, so I went in to find a choir of young chaps, all dressed in ruffs and cassocks like I used to wear, singing the same anthems I used to sing 15 years ago. It was really moving –brought back some strong memories.

Snowdonia
I met up with two really nice guys from Chicago and we spent two days hiking the Snowdonia mountains. We scaled the Snowdon peak, the highest peak in England and Wales. Gorgeous scenery and the weather was warm and clear which is a miracle for this area apparently. Mark and Alex are both 100 mile long distance running competitors – so I felt very proud to be able to keep up. I’ve never been so super fit in my life. I seem to walk an average of 15 miles or more every day.

To get to the top of the Snowdon peak we had to balance our way along this very narrow ridge with massive cliff drops on either side. There were times when the ridge was less than a metre wide. Certainly not part of the trip that I’ll ever forget!

Here is one of the stunning lakes we passed during our hike through Snowdonia. We were tempted to swim buy it was icy cold –not surprising when you consider that most of the water is snow that had recently melted.

Beddgelert
We spent a very enjoyable day walking to this little village through the mountains. This village has been voted “most scenic village” in Wales. The flowers were in full bloom – really pretty. After our 18 mile hike to the village, we decided to catch the bus back to Llanberg.

Caernarfon Castle
I spent a morning in Caernarfon, viewing all the sights. The castle was particularly impressive, one of the largest castles I’ve ever seen and right on he edge of a blue lagoon. I had to say goodbye to Mark and Alex today which was sad because we’ve had some great times. They’re off to the Lake District, I’m heading to Scotland.

Stirling
I arrived in Edinburgh last night, what a stunning city! Today I’ve taken a day trip to Stirling where the Scottish won a decisive victory against the British in + 1290 thanks to their hero, William Wallace. I’ve wanted to come here ever since watching the brilliant movie “Braveheart” with Mel Gibson. A beautiful town with monuments, castles and gorgeous scenery. I go back to Edinburgh tonight and will see all its sights tomorrow.

I’m lazing in the hot sunshine in Edinburgh Park. Everyone has taken off their tops to sunbathe. I’ve never seen so much white flesh in all my life! This post card is very appropriate – I’ve seen all the sights on it, except I didn’t stay in the hotel but in a dingy but delightfully fun and friendly hostel in Princes Street. The castle here is awesome with close on 1000 years of rich Scottish history. All round, a really gorgeous city. From here I go back to London. It’s been close on three weeks since I left for my England trip. It’s been fantastic.

London
Well, I’m back in London for a few days – it’s wonderful to see Ally again. She is off to Paris, me to Amsterdam, so we’re relaxing and re-charging our batteries.

Ally and I took a drive with Colleen to Beaconsfield just outside London. There we visited the oldest model village in the world – tiny houses, churches, castles, hotels and railways. The entire town, down to the tiniest detail, is in minute scale. Amazing – it made me feel like a kid again, particularly all the trains!

Oxford
I spent a lovely day walking the stretch of Oxford, exploring this beautiful university town. I visited one of the best known colleges (Magdelon) and was lucky enough to hear their famous boy’s chorister choir (moved me to tears, so good). Also saw punters on the river and all the other well known sights. What a place to spend your student years.



Letter dated 28/4/97

Hi there Mum, Jo, Gran, Gramps & Antony

How are you all doing? Isn’t modern technology wonderful! A couple of taps on the computer keys, a push on the “send” button and this message arrives instantly in South Africa. No envelope, no stamps, no fuss. I’m typing this letter from Ally’s computer at work. It’s 6pm and I’m not really supposed to be here – tight company security and all that – but she managed to smuggle me in without anyone seeing and she’s even managed to get me some free corporate fizzy drink from the kitchen, so I’m sitting here in the lap of luxury on her very comfortable company chair.

It’s only been about 10 days since I got here and I’m already missing you very much. I have really enjoyed my time in London so far, I’ve had a wonderfully hectic time of running around seeing all the sights. It really is the most amazing city; I reckon a traveller could rush around London every day for ten years and still not see all there is to see.

I think I told you about my flight – it was a real marathon affair taking 5 hours more than expected. First there were delays in Windhoek – and believe me, there isn’t much to do in Windhoek airport except sit and tap your feet – and the we were held up for two hours in Frankfurt airport in Germany which was supposed to be a quick “land and take-off” affair. I was very relieved when I finally landed in Heathrow at noon, and so was Ally who had been waiting since 7:00am. Needless to say, Ally and I threw ourselves into a blissful, close embrace, made all the closer by the fact that we hadn’t seen each other for three whole months. We rushed for the tube station so we could be properly reunited – only to be forced to sit around on the train at Heathrow station for another hour. It turns out there was a “suspect” package on the railway which the authorities suspected to be an IRA bomb, thus causing more delays. How frustrating!

As you know, Ally is living in North Acton with three Irish housemates – Teresa, Eilean and Helen. They are really delightful girls and have made me feel very welcome. Ally has moved out of her small room into a luxuriously spacious “pad” with a spectacular view which is a good thing because neither of us are the tidiest in the world and a tiny room would definitely cause “domestic frictions”.

Ally took the Thursday and Friday off from work so we enjoyed a nice relaxing long weekend. Pippa, my ex “partner” from Old Mutual was in London for a few days with her fiancée, Rob, so we met them in Hyde Park for a meal and a walk. I must say, Rob is a very nice guy although I don’t know that she is going to see him much. He is a high flying management consultant who flies all over the world. Rob went back to work after lunch and Pippa, Ally and I then went for a walk to Harrods where we lusted after all the goodies on sale.

Ally and I have also been spending quite a bit of time with her friend Colleen and her boyfriend, Mike. We all went to a traditional Irish pub the other night where I was re-acquainted with Guinness; it really is the most delicious stuff. I can’t wait to travel around Ireland and sample Guinness at every pub I come to. We also visited Kew Gardens, the famous garden for the Royal Palaces. It is about 250 years old, nearly as old as South Africa! Kew Gardens is dotted with huge Victorian greenhouses full of plants from all over the world. It is so hot inside that Ally’s glasses kept steaming up.

Kew Gardens is home to the longest living pot plant – and guess where it is from? Yes, indeed, sunny South Africa! It dates from 1785. Fame at last for S.A. horticulture!

Unfortunately Ally had to go back to work, and I must say she is working exceedingly hard. She works five days a week at Ernst and Young and is rarely home before 7pm. Then four days a week (including at least one Saturday or Sunday) she works at a pub and often only gets home at 1am. She has decided to give up the pub job, about which I am relieved, and ask her Ernst and Young boss for one pound per hour raise to compensate. I don’t think she’ll struggle to get it, she works very hard.

When Ally goes to work I hit the London sights. I have become addicted to London’s museums – they are absolutely spectacular. The first museum I visited was the British National Museum (dedicated to ancient artefacts from ancient cities including real mummies from Egypt and the original Rosetta Stone. For the first time in my life, I was actually glad I did Latin at school because I could understand the inscriptions on the Roman statues.

I also visited the Museum of the Moving Image (all about the history of cinema and television) and the Natural History Museum (all about the evolution of animals and plants). Then, the other day, I went to the Imperial War Museum which was particularly fascinating – all about first and second world war. It included an “actual London Blitz” experience where we were all stuffed into a small room, the lights went out, and we were subjected to a barrage of huge blasts and shakes like those experienced in the bomb shelters in London during the 2nd World War. I remember Granny telling me about her experiences in the bomb shelters in London, and I must say, Gran, it was terrifying.

Also rather terrifying was the “London Dungeon”, London’s museum of torture and punishment – and all sorts of other ghoulish things – full of gruesome models and awful sounds. They had a particularly nasty section all about Jack the Ripper. The highlight of the tour was getting into a boat which took us along a tunnel of unexpected nasties, including a sudden 6 foot plunge down a kind of waterfall in the pitch black. I wouldn’t want to do it again in a hurry, but it certainly was an experience.

On Friday I went on a fantastic tour of London on a traditional open air bus. You pay a set amount, then you can use the bus service the whole day, jumping on and off whenever you want. I got to see St Paul’s, Westminster Abbey, Buckingham Palace, Fleet Street, London Bridge and Tower, the English Stock Exchange (quite a thrill for me, actually), St James Place, Fire Monument Tower (311 steps to get to the top but oh, what a view!) and Trafalgar Square to name but a few. I froze on top of the bridge (the English summer hasn’t quite arrived yet) but had a great time.

Oh, by the way, I managed to get tickets for Phantom of the Opera. They are not easy to get because the show is booked out for months in advance, but I managed to get a relatively cheap ticket. Seats were not great but the show was unbelievable, certainly an experience I will never forget. Ally got ½ price tickets for Jesus Christ Superstar from work, so I’ll be spoiled again on Wednesday night.

Talking of which, Ally’s company had their delayed Christmas party two nights ago – which was held at (wait for it) – the Hilton Hotel. A fairytale evening of eating and dancing to a live band. It was a wonderful evening and I was very glad I had bought my suit from home – although even then I was rather underdressed as most wore dinner jackets. It was great to meet all Ally’s work colleagues – they are a really friendly group.

Yesterday I went to “Speaker’s Corner” at Hyde Park where every Sunday, people are encouraged to stand up on boxes and have their say about whatever they want to or believe in. It is mostly religious fanatics and other crackpots who take the limelight, but there were also a couple of highly entertaining and amusing speakers. Gramps, I immediately thought of you. I think you would have been an excellent addition to the proceedings.

Last night, Ally and I went to the famous Porchester Turkish Baths for several hours of unadulterated pleasure. Adorned in gorgeous marble arches and floors, the spa contains steam rooms, saunas, Jacuzzis, cold plunge pools and massage rooms. Mum, I think you would have been in seventh heaven. I can quite easily see why you are so passionate about the Rustenberg health hydro when you go there!

Oops, we’ve just had a security guard look into the room, I’m trying to look like a member of the Ernst & Young staff but that is not easy in my jeans and tackie’s! I think it is time that I make a move. Time to hit the tube! I must say I’m becoming an absolute pro at finding my way around. And I’ve never done so much walking in all my life.

I promise to write again soon. I’m probably going to Wales this weekend and will tell you all about it. I’m missing you all very much and can’t wait to hear some of the things that have been happening in your lives.

Speak to you son.

Love Graeme



Letter dated 2nd June 1997

Dear Mum, Gran & Gramps, Jo and Ant

Hello, hello, hello! I’ve just arrived back in London after my three week back-packing trip to SW England, Wales and Edinburgh. It was absolutely fantastic. The travel bug has got me well and truly hooked! I can’t wait for my trip to Amsterdam and the Netherlands starting on Thursday. Anyway, I thought I’d drop you a line and let you know what I’ve been doing. The postcards I sent probably tended to be a little cryptic at times. There really isn’t much space to put in details. But at least they show some of the sights I’ve seen – and they will provide a really valuable record for me to remember my trips by.

After my last Email to you all I spent just over a week more in London, seeing some more sights. I caught the Dock Road railway (an automatic electric train with no driver!) to Greenwich to see the Observatory and jump from East to West in one bound. It was a beautiful sunny day but silly me thought the English sun had no sting – so I proceeded to get rather burnt! Then I caught a lazy ferry along the Thames to see London from a different angle.

Ally and I went to see Jesus Christ Superstar (absolutely brilliant). We had really nice seats unlike some poor sods that had to sit behind the stage with wonderful views of the actor’s backsides and not much else! I’m enthralled by the London shows, they really are addictive, and so to add spice to the experience I went and visited the Theatre Museum to get a taste of the history of theatre and how modern shows are put together. Very interesting. Since then, I’ve also seen Miss Saigon (so sad, the ushers served Kleenex with the programs) and The Importance of being Oscar – all about the triumph and tragedy of Oscar Wilde – amazing – there was only one actor and the show was two hours long, including long memorised excerpts from Wilde’s plays, poems and novels. How the chap remembered all his lines I’ll never know.

On one day I went for a walk in Regents Park and phoned Ally – a good old “I just called to say I love you” type thing. Suddenly the door of the phone box is yanked open and a policeman pulls me out, demanding to know who I was talking to and what I’d been saying. Obviously the Brits aren’t too big on slushy romance! It turns out that an IRA chap had just used the phone to make a bomb threat. The police had traced it and had pounced. I explained that I was speaking to my girlfriend, and once the bobby had verified it by speaking to Ally herself (who was a bit shaken, as you can imagine), he apologies in a stiff upper lip fashion and gave me 10 pence to put towards my call!

Other interesting excursions: Ally and I ate at a Japanese noodle bar called Waggamamas. Real cheap, tasty food and brilliant service – because the waiter takes the number of your order, punches it into a remote control terminal on his arm and the kitchen instantaneously receives it. How’s that for “hi-tech” food! Then one afternoon I was looking for some “alternative” entertainment so went to the Old Bailey law courts and sat in on some juicy trials, watching the pompous, bewigged lawyers and judges doing their thing. Fascinating stuff – for an hour or so but then the novelty started to run a bit thin!

Ally and I spent a very enjoyable weekend in Coventry, staying at Ally’s aunts. She is very sweet and friendly and most importantly, a fantabulous cook who thinks both Ally and I are far too thin. We ate like kings and arrived back laden with cakes and other delicious homemade goodies. We used Coventry as a springboard to visit Stratford on Avon where, of course, Shakespeare was born. I must say, I’ve forgiven Shakespeare for all the hours of inflicted boredom he bestowed on us at school and dare I say, started to develop a real respect for the old bard. Although, I have to say, his plays are far better digested as real plays (and of course movies) than read out of dog eared books like at school.

Then, Ally and I said our farewells and I put on my mighty backpack and went off on my trip. I caught the train to Lands End in deepest Cornwall and stayed at a remote Youth Hostel, right on the desolate Cornwall cliffs (worth the 3 mile walk from the bus station!). I spent a glorious couple of days exploring the coastal scenery – desolate, rugged cliffs, stunning rock formations, churning seas, diving sea gulls). Also explored some of the towns like St Just and Penzance (with its awesome St Michael’s Mount, an island castle that you can walk to in low tide but have to catch the boat back. One poor old gent decided he didn’t want to pay the 70 pence for the boat, so put on his wellies and bounded along the path as the tide came up. He might have done o.k. if the wind hadn’t suddenly come up and utterly drenched him in blown cold watery spray. By the time he made it over, he would have made a drowned rat look coiffed!

Then to the lush, green paradise that is Devon where I stayed in a Youth Hostel overlooking the River Dart. Relatively close to the resort of Paignton. Devon brought back some really strong memories from when I was six years old, particularly when I went on the old Steam Train that travels along the coast and river. The Maypool hostel was almost deserted on the first night and I felt a bit lonely – hoped some people would arrive. My wish was answered, the next evening 90 screaming French twelve year olds (a school outing group) descended on the place. Needless to say, dawn the next morning, I got the hell outa there! I hiked through the river valley to the very pretty town of Dartmouth (with its castle at the estuary mouth) and hiked in the Little Dartmoor (more stunning scenery). I was stung b a nettle which brought more memories of being in Devon when I was six!

From Dartmouth to Kingsbridge past awesome beaches like Slapton Sands, then to Salcombe (mecca of yachting enthusiasts) and from there a ferry to White Sands with its youth hostel situated in tropical gardens on the cliff edge. I spent two great days hiking the area with a really nice guy I met (an Essex chap who works for Sainsbury with excellent tips on how to get discounts on their desserts) – more cliffs, but with gorgeous sandy coves nestled here and there, so tucked away that a poor couple thought it was safe to swim nude until I bounded unexpectedly onto the scene with my binoculars hanging from my neck. Not a pretty sight – with all that white, pale flesh exposed to sight!

Then I caught the train to Bristol for some city life. I caught the sights, then went to a horror movie called “The Relic” and didn’t enjoy my walk back to the hostel along the dark streets!

From Bristol to Bath – what a gorgeous city! Deep under the city is a huge ruin of an ancient Roman Bath that was built on a hot spring. The spring is still steaming hot to this day, as it flows through the ancient Roman pools and tunnels. The urge to jump in was extremely strong, unfortunately it is not open for bathing. What a waste of paradise! But fascinating nevertheless. Bath also has inspired Georgian architecture including its famous masterpiece – a stunning row of houses known as “The Crescent”. Excitement! - on a warm evening I was lazing in a park admiring this view and watching hot air balloons take off all around. Suddenly a balloon misjudged its take off and went crashing into the roof of the Crescent, knocking down three of its chimneys and taking out half the roof. Chaos reigned as police cards and the entire fire department descended on the place – headline news the next day – and it all happened less than 50 metres away from where I was sitting.

From Bath I went on a zany “Mad Max” tour of Wiltshire – where I got to see Stonehenge, Silbury Hill, Lacock Village (its pub has a wheel that was turned by a running dog, in the same way as a hamsters exercise wheel, in order to produce heat for the generator. Apparently the dog’s incentive to keep running was a hot coal placed on the circle just behind the poor mutt. Don’t think the SPCA would approve!), the Avebury Stone Circles (largest henge in Europe, with a burrow 9 metres high that took over 1.5 million man hours to build, using deer antlers as spades. According to learned professors, the latest theory is that the henge was a prehistoric fertility “pleasure park” – where orgies would take place each May. This festival is the fore-runner of our current day “May” day festival – interesting. Finally Castle Comb – a beautiful English village that was voted prettiest village in England in 1962 and the set for the 1967 movie “Dr Dolittle”.

From Bath to the Pembrokeshire National Park in S.W. Wales – undoubtedly some of the best scenery I’ve ever seen. I hiked for miles (never walked so much in all my life) through the park. The coast here has been ravished by the sea with towering islands of rock and deep sea caves. I met an old man at the hostel who could barely walk or talk, yet here he was, bundu bashing. Don’t know how though, just getting into bed took him 20 minutes of agonised grunts and groans. Inspiring though, that he won’t let himself be beat!

From the coast I went by boat to the Island of Ramsey, a bird reserve, and got to see millions of breeding sea birds (which for me, as a passionate bird watcher/twitcher, was pure heaven). I met a really nice Bristol lass and spent some time travelling and sight seeing with her in her tiny mini. Pure luxury after all the backpacking.

From Pembrokeshire to the Snowdonia National Park in North Wales, home to the Snowden Peak, the highest mountain in England and Wales (not that much higher than Table Mountain) – but it was fun to climb, especially along the route we chose along a deathly narrow ledge with 1,000 foot drops on BOTH sides. Felt like I was a tight roper at times and wasn’t adverse to sliding along on my backside – who cares about the image! I spent most of my time in Snowdonia with two really nice chaps from Chicago – keeping up with them was tough though because they are both 100 mile “mega marathon” runners back home. But they were more scared of heights than me, so I got my own back! The weather in Snowdonia was awesome which is a miracle for this area – normally it is under snow and cloud. I’m one of a tiny select group to have seen the Snowdon Peak from down at base camp.

Then to Edinburgh to see the castle on the hill and meet some “Scotts”. Really friendly people apart from their dietary liking for haggis (cow guts tastefully wrapped in an intestinal lining). I’d been through Edinburgh before on my way to North Scotland, but from the highway it looked like a dump so we passed right by. Only later did I hear that it is probably the most beautiful city in Britain with tonnes of wonderful culture. And I must say, it didn’t disappoint.

One of the more unusual tours I did was a scary tour of Edinburgh’s underground city – dark vaults and tunnels and chambers where the poor were forced to live in the old days when they couldn’t afford to live elsewhere. Of course, hundreds died in the damp and the dark, so now the vaults are haunted (according to our tour guide). In the pitch black, we were regaled with scary stories of spirits, ghosts and witches from Edinburgh’s past – all of which was rudely ended off with a n enormous “boo” as a figure leapt from the roof to give us the fright of our lives. And to think I paid pounds to have a heart attack!

From Edinburgh I visited Stirling where William Wallace (alias Mel Gibson, in Braveheart) won the famous Battle of Stirling against the Brits. I climbed the steps to the top of the Wallace Monument. Who would have thought that Hollywood would lead to such cultural explorations!

Well, that brought my trip to an end. I hurtled back to London for recuperation in Ally’s arms and to book my trip to the Netherlands. We’ve spent a relaxing weekend doing nothing (well, almost!). I leave for Amsterdam on Thursday.

Well that’s all for now. Travelling is great, but I’m really missing you all. It was wonderful to receive all your letters when I got back. I’m glad that everything is going o.k. Gran and Gramps, I was sorry to hear about your tummy bugs, I hope you’ve fully recovered. There is nothing worse than that – although I suppose you’d better get prepared for it in India! Have you guys seen any good movies recently? With the cost of movies here in London I can only afford to see a movie if I know it’s going to be really good!

Mum, it was wonderful to hear all your news. You certainly seem to be very busy! How is your new job going? And crochet – or is the weather getting in the way? And have you had any good bridge hands lately? Any more weekends away?

Jo, hope you enjoy Langebaan this weekend. I’ll be in Amsterdam. Ally will be in Paris to see her mum. What a tough life! Hope your exams went o.k., at least they are finally over so you can relax! Ant, hope you’re not working too hard. Although, I know careers can take over. I’ve really been missing those games of volleyball and poker.

I must go now, Ally is very tired. It’s 9:23pm and we’ve still got to find some supper and get the wretched tube. Then walk 30 minutes. Oyh for my little car – perched up on all those blocks!

Speak to you soon. I promise to keep the old postcards rolling in!

Ciao



Poetry

Little Dartmouth
The river estuary disappears behind the hills towards a hidden castle,
past hills clothed in bushes of orange
and tenacious trees that cling to the sea coast below.
Grassy fields slope up and away,
as a solitary yacht heads out to sea
between islands of rock.
A buzzard swoops and soars and sea gulls pass on open wings.
Little birds chatter from the hedges and trees.
The sun warms the nip in the breeze.
I sit.
Content.

The Sleepy Village
Soaking up the morning sun on a bus-stop bench, my eyes follow the River Dart
past yachts and ferries and fishing boats.
Behind me, Dartmouth yawns and stretches
savouring her peace
before the steam train arrives
to pour forth her torrent of tourists.
Next to me, an elderly couple passes gentle comments to and fro,
while men lazily man their boat cruise kiosks along the bank.

South Sands
The river embraces her estuary
before spreading into a vast, open sea.
Fluffy clouds float as calm in the quiet sky
as the boats on the blue waters below.
At my feet, the tropical garden explodes
into green hues of every shade.
Birds celebrate the close of day
with their chirps and twitters as
the subtle scent of sweet flowers
wisps through the air.

The Cove
Nestled between rocky shores
lies a beach of soft sand and speckled pebbles
with a tangled border of sea weed along the water's edge.
The sea is a sparkling, emarald green with a stab of red
where a little boat bobs on rhythmic waves.
The entrance to the beach is steep and rugged
over weather eroded rocks and earth.
Scantily clothed in grass and flowers, the earth pokes through, here and there,
like scalp on a balding head.

Salty Pebbles
Pebbles at the water's edge - a multitude of sizes and rounded shapes.
Some speckled, some unblemished and glistening wet in the sun.
The sea slides over the pebbles on its little surges up the beach, surging forwards, then sighing back in retreat.
I put a tiny round pebble in my mouth and taste its salty smoothess.
My senses are enthralled by the beauty of this place, far from the world's gaze.



Travel Notes


Cornwall
  • Caught British Rail to Penzance. Had problem with my ticket - had to exchange at Victoria 3 hours delayed. Then bus to Land's End and a walk to Land's End Youth Hostel at St Just. Beautiful coastal country with rugged cliffs.
  • My first experience of Youth Hostels, very friendly. Steve, a Brit, is walking the 900 mile SW Coast Path. My foot is giving hiccups.
  • An invogorating 5 mile walk from St Just to Senne Cove (surfer's paradise and provider of warm coffee) to Land's End where there is a theme park (a bit out of place on the desolate coast. Rugged cliffs, beautiful rock formations, churning seas and diving sea-gulls.
  • A bus trip to Penzance and an awesome view of St Michael's Mount - what a beautiful castle! I walked across the path to the island, then had to catch the boat back because the tide had risen. Old chap walks across to avoid paying 70 pence - sopping wet.
    Stayed night again at Land's End Youth Hostel.
Devon
  • A train journey to Plymouth, the largest city in the SW. The bus service to Dartmoor (Bellever Youth Hostel) not operating, so I travel by bus to Maypool Youth Hostel near Paignton. A brisk 1.5 mile walk up the hills. Great views of the River Dart.
  • Caught the steam train to Kingswear, then the ferry across the River Dart to Dartmouth. A walk along the river to the Dartmouth Castle, on the banks of the estuary. Then a lovely walk along the coast through Little Dartmoor. Stung by a nettle. Peaceful and beautiful. Purchased fresh steak and vegetables for supper.
  • A huge rabble of french and swedish kids descend upon the Maypool youth hostel . A walk thrught the forrested hills cheers me a bit.
  • The morning welcomes with glorious weather. An early hike along the Dartmouth Trail along the misty River Dart to Dartmouth. A splendid bus drive to Kingsbridge with views of Slapton Sands and its tank. Another bus to the village of Salcombe and a ferry to South Sands (a resort near the river estuary).
  • A lazy afternoon spent reading the Bourne Identity and napping on the sandy beach - then a short walk up the hill to the Youth Hosel (part of the Overbeck Museum and beautiful gardens) with its panoramic views of the river estuary and sea. Late afternoon garden, then cliff walk.
  • A walk along the coast to secret sandy coves and a pebbly beach to a prominent point, peregrine falcons, a rusty wreck, scones at "The Shop on the Top." All in stunning, clear weather. A rush back to get the ferry to South Sands.
  • A hike along the coast on the other side of the coast to a cove, past a windy look-out point. Misty and chilly. A snorkel diver caused excitement.
  • Had great fun conversations with David, a 29 year old Sainsbury employee from Essex. Also fun with an American couple from California - he an ex Vietnam fighter pilot (marathon man) and his adorable, patient wife.
Bristol
  • Caught ferry, bus and train to Bristol. Went for walk at the Harbor but weather rainy. My first experience of a "city hostel." Very different - more people, less easy to make friends.
    An evening walk in Bristol to see the Bristol Cathedral and a scary movie, "The Relic."
Bath
  • A wonderful day spent in Bath on an open air bus, viewing this stunning city - the Abbey, Pulteney Bridge, the Circus and Royal Crescent + hill views. Fascinating tours of the Roman Baths (they really knew how to live!) and the Costume Museum. (corsets and unbelievable frames - the things people will do for fashion!)
  • Evening relaxation at Royal Victoria Garden watching hot air balloons take off. One hit the roof taking out three chimneys.
  • Night spent at Backpackers
  • Went on the "Mad Max" tour to Wiltshire. Rainy sights were Stonehenge, Cherhill White Horse, Avebury Stone Circles (largest henge in Europe, 9 m high burrow alone took 1.5 million hours of labour with deer antlers. Ancient scene of orgies around the maypole to conceive in May with different seed. Enormous stone picture of man with enormous erection. Prehistoric or modern?
  • Then Silbury Hill, Lacock Village - with lunch at the George with its own original dog wheel. Dog on wheel with hot coal to heat water and produce electricity.
  • Castle Comb, a traditional Cotswald village, with cottages from the 14 th century, and voted prettiest village in England in 1962 + set for Dr Dolittle. Doors only 5 feet high.
  • Tiny little church, river running through.
  • Went to watch "Scream" at the cinema with Jeff, a Canadian.

SW Wales
Next stop is St Davids, Pembrokeshire National Park.
  • Walk from Youth Hostel to St Justinian where catch boat round Ramsey Island. First view of several sea bird species as well as incredible sea caves and cliffs. Old man at hostel can hardly walk or talk, yet bundu bashing.
  • Fell in love with Becki, an adorable lass from Bristol (Emma Thomson like, social worker, acedemic boyfriend) and meet Graeme, very similar to me with an ex in London.
  • Becki drives me to Abercastle, where see ancient tomb. Go under to discover propped up by wooden beams, so much for 5000 years of standing!
  • Wonderful long walk from there to St Davids - sights include awesome, sea ravished cliffs, Porthgain harbour ruins and Blue Lagoon.
  • Visit St Davids Cathedral (spiritual listening to Choir) and views of the Bishop's Palace.
    Stay last night at a B&B - what luxury!! Go to local pub where try to pick up model of Guiness after fetching pizza. Eat biggest breakfast of my life. Complete book (The Bourne Identity)

North Wales
  • Head for Llanberis. A full day of travelling - with Mark and Alex from Chicago to Llanberis Youth hostel. Huge supper at Pete's Eats and short walk to lake.
  • Manage to find accomodation despite bank holiday - thank goodness for Backpackers. Then 6 mile walk with Mark and Alex to start of Pyg trail, then up and over knife edge top of Crib Goch (with huge drops on both sides) to summit of Snowdon Peak, highest peak in England and Wales. Steam railway station at top. Miraculous weather. Down the mountain along the railway to a pub garden for a much deserved Guiness. Homemade Welsh stew for supper and breakfast of real Welsh Rarebit.
  • A long hike from Llanberis through mountain valleys and pine forests to the tiny village of Beddgelert where a prince mistakenly killed his faithful hound thinking it had killed his son.
  • Say goodbyye to Mark and Alex (off to Edinburg). I spend morning in Caernarfon, viewing its famous castle. Then back to Llanbaris for a relaxing afternoon of reading and sleeping.

Scotland
  • Travel to Edinburgh, arrive late, go to cinema to watch "Microcosmos" - bump into Mark and Alex.
  • Spend night with three long term guests at Princes Backpackers. Room nuked and girls very relaxed!
  • Catch train to Stirling for a bit of hero worship. Quick walk to William Wallace monument turns out to be a hike! Fantastic view from the top of Stirling. Then to the old city for views of the castle, old church and cemetary and Stirling bridge.
  • Back to Edinburgh where I watch "Female Perversions." Then a night walk along the Golden Mile. Specacular weather and sights. Back to hostel for Reservoir Dogs.
  • A glorious day of sunshine viewing the Edinburgh castle - steeped in Scotish history including the crown jewels and Stone of Destiny. Also saw Scotish Regiment museums, War Memorial, dog cemetary and castle prisons and experienced 1 o'clock cannon. A warm sunbathe in the park, then a last night feast at Pizza Land. A "horror tour" of Edinburghs vaults (full of tales of ghosts; then a big fright) Watch "Maverick" till late.
    An interesting look at the National Gallery, then to Royal Museum of Scotland - enough of museums for now!
  • Catch train back to London to see Ally again. All in all an absolutely fantastic time - one of the best in my life. The travel bug has got me!!!

London
  • Saturday night party at Colleen's - SA vs New Zealanders. We toy toyed to Amabokke and played the end commentary of World Cup.
  • Sunday, went on a drive to Beaconsfield in Colleen's car. Visited Beconscott Model Village - oldest model village in world with wonderful trains.
  • Monday admin day getting Ally's visa and organising my Amsterdam trip + writing EMails. Ally and I go to delicious curry restaurant. OK till we discover price excludes all but the meat. Wonderful fun with Ally on bottle of wine.
  • Tuesday, have my hair cut (very short!!) and go to library + finish E Mails.
  • Wednesday, Ally off to Paris, I spend good day at OXFORD. See the old library (5 million books) + city from St Mary's church tower + botanical gardens + Magdalon College (stunning walks round grounds watching punters on river) + massive bookshop + Magdalon even song - choir beyond words!! Phone family at home.




    New birds seen (Wales)


    Pembrokeshire
    • Linnet

    Ramsey Island
    • Fulmar
    • Guillemot
    • Kittiwake
    • Razorbill



    Next stop:

    Ireland

    13 April 1997

    London




    • Ally and I are reaquainted. I stay with her in North Acton with Eilean, Teresa and Helen.
    • Lunch with Pippa to meet Rob, then walk in Hyde Park and visit Harrods.
    • Go drinking at an Irish Pub with Colleen and co. Guiness!
    • Visit Kew Gardens with Colleen (Victorian greenhouses), followed by a braai and X Files at her place. Oldest pot plant in world (1700s) is SA.
    • My first solo journey on the "tube" to visit the British National Museum to see ancient statues and relics - including Egyptian mummies.
    • Walk through Soho.
    • Imperial War museum (trench and blitz experience for World Wars)
    • Museum of the Moving Image - a fascinating history of cinema and television, even video games.
    • Open air bus tour (views of Big Ben, Parliament Building, London Tower and Bridge, Westminster Abby, Fleet Street, HMR Belfast, The Bank of England, Trafalgar Square)
      Visit to St Pauls and Buckingham Palace
    • Phantom of the Opera at Her Majesty's Theatre
    • Pepsi Trocadero - entertainment complex of the future
    • London Dungeon - torture, punishment, and Jack the Ripper - sit in car, plunged into darkness, lifted up , face firing squad, then whoosh down water slide.
    • The Hilton for a night of dinner and dancing with Ally
    • Speaker's Corner at Hyde Park - some so serious, others taking piss. Black brothers talking racism, other topics were battle of sexes etc.
    • Monument - tower monument to the Great Fire of london - 311 stairs to a wonderful view
      "Shakespear's Globe Theatre" - attempt
    • Porchester Turkish Baths (steam rooms, jacuzzi, sauna and cold plunge pool)
    • Science Museum
    • Museum of Natural History
    • Dock Road train to Greenwich - no driver - to see the gardens and the Observatory - sunburnt! Jump from east to west instantly.
    • Jesus Christ Superstar
    • Theatre museum
    • Visit Ally's aunt, Carol. Day trip to Stratford Upon Avon to see Shakespeare's birth place.
    • Walk in Regent park
    • Nearly arrested for making a bomb threat while making a phone call.
    • The Importance of being Oscar (Savoy Theatre) One man show with big bits out of all his book, poems and plays. Played multiple parts. How did he remember the words?
    • Waggamamas (Japanese noodle bar with computerised ordering and green tea to finish off)
    • Sat in the Royal Courts listening to an undue leniency case for professional bank robbers - bewigged!
    • Miss Saigon
    • Starting to really think about my trips - visit travel agent
    • Delicious farewell dinner and romantic goodbye with Ally.

    8 April 1997

    Silent Tears


    I look into her world
    and see a vulnerable child.
    She loves without  reserve;
    wants only for me to love her as deep
    to share our lives,
    nurture a family:
    two children, a warm home, a puppy and kitten
    She looks into my eyes for hope;
    sees sadness deeper than a hundred wells
    confusion
    fear
    doubt.
    I am terrified to commit to her:
    a life of responsibility
    with no escape should the pain come.
    But I love her,  want to  nurture her, give her all.
    And I need her.
    She is my warmth and light when the storm comes.
    Strung between fear of her - and fear of no her
    between her pain and mine.
    I see her beautiful soul
    reflected through her  glistening tears.
    My hands caress her cheek with infinite tenderness
    but my eyes are unable to give her
    the assurance she needs.
    Just sadness.
    confusion
    doubt;
    as we wait  for the mystery to unfold
    to connect us through a million threads
    or set us adrift on separate ships.

    Written: 1997

    8 March 1997

    Fear

    Niggling fear
    like a worm that wriggles, and hisses like a snake.
    Shivers in my heart in the deep of the night.
    Burgeoning.  Out of control.
    Hot, writhing, rods in my bowels.
    Want to hide - anywhere dark.
    Away from this hell.
    From the scrutiny that will come.
    From the pressure -
    the pressure that is being tightened like a vice around my skull.
    Got to be perfect.
    But I'm stupid!   Inferior.
    They'll find out!  They'll know.
    Oh, the pressure.  Time, so little time.
    Round and round and round, no escape.
    Got to prove I can. 
    Squeeze it out.  Try harder.  Come on.
    An agonised cry.  What is wrong with me!!!!
    They will watch.  I feel so useless.  Helpless.
    The vice tightens.
    I feel my skull pressure.  I feel the bones crack.
    I sense my hand as it tightens the screws.

    Written: 1997

    8 February 1997

    Violence of art

    Violence of Art
    Frustrating, fucking so
    Gnarled with fucking frustration
    Explode, bruise, let it go
    Screaming and blaring in unrestrained passion
    No safety net.
    Spontaneous.  Free.  Rip the voice apart - send it hurtling away like a rat with
    a firecracker on its tail
    Exploding  into bloody bits
    The violence of art is clear, quietening the voice.

    Written 1997

    5 January 1997

    Out there

    They laugh and joke out there;
    the unselfconscious fun of the free;
    their cheery voices mingle
    and jovial banter flows.
    All the time,  I lie in my hut
    timid like a mouse
    scared of being judged
    as my mind judges  -
    and hiding from the pressure
    to entertain and impress
    with confident wittiness.
    Oh self imposed pressure -
    Crack and Break!
    Let me leap forth from my lonely hole
    to sit and be with friends
    relaxed and open and free
    as me - just me - and no more.

    Written: 1997

    8 November 1996

    Mystical experience: The Monsoon Palace and the swifts.

    In 1997, I was in India with Ally and we visited The Monsoon Palace, an exquisite palace high on the slopes above Udaipur.  As we looked out at the view, the sun started to set, lighting up the sky in a beautiful soft orange hue.  I felt so deeply peaceful and so profoundly connected to life. As these feelings swept over me, a large flock of swifts appeared in the sky and they swirled and swooped, filling me with wonder and joy at the sheer beauty of it all.

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