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Showing posts with label connections. Show all posts
Showing posts with label connections. Show all posts

11 August 2000

Connections (London years: 2000 - 2003)


Siegelgale

  • Peter Gibson, Anita, Becky
  • Gerry, Kate, Brad, Aaron
  • Tallie (Bank Hapoalim)
  • Ken 
  • Javed


Volvo

  • Caroline
  • Matts
  • Andrew
  • Richard
  • Andrew Titley
  • Helen
  • Mark Vikner


Friends

  • Colleen & Steve
  • Mike
  • Carol, Gus & family


Therapist

  • Eve Dolphin



Extended family

  • Adam and Michael


Travel

  • Nepal (Sanjay & Grania, Nick & Izzy)
  • Africa (Chris, mama, Carl, leaders)


Touch rugby

  • Gareth, Wheels, Tanya, Mike


Tour-leading

  • Kerin, Ryan, Garry, Donna
  • Shona, Niki
  • Gus
  • Chris
  • Paul (sheep farmer)


Love and appreciation

  • E-mail to Eve Dolphin
  • Mum and Mike wedding speech
  • Ally's unwavering support (depression, tour-leader)
  • Email to Gramps
  • I love you on the ice frosted window of our hired car

16 October 1994

Connect (Old Mutual years: 1994 - 1999)



Wedding speeches

  • Speech at Jo's wedding
  • Ivor wedding speech


Pets

  • Feta, Meg


Friends

  • Ally
  • Russell
  • Rory
  • Ivor
  • Joanna
  • Peter Holiday
  • Nicola
  • The Saunders
  • Eleda (Ally's big personality friend)


Housemates

  • Russell
  • Shirley
  • Oliver
  • Peter Holiday
  • Candice


Old Mutual

  • Pippa
  • Daniel
  • Steven
  • David Bombal
  • Helen & Claire
  • Pieter
  • Bertie
  • Danie
  • Riel
  • Steven
  • Peter Hamp Adams
  • Dave Hudson
  • Julie


Electronic Agency

  • Garry
  • Aldie
  • Lukie
  • Dionne
  • Ganine
  • Authur Clarke
  • Dennis
  • Dorian (paddle skiing)


Travels

  • Ben (Cairo)
  • Israeli guy
  • Singing Yank
  • Caroline (Pink Palace)
  • Kate & Kiwi


1 October 1989

Connection (University years: 1989 - 1993)


Friends

  • Ally
  • Julian
  • Rory
  • Russell
  • Ivor
  • Tony
  • Moira
  • Caroline, Louise (trips)
  • Joanna


Housemates

  • Dain
  • Eleda
  • Andre
  • Peter (plumber)
  • Steven (Jesus)
  • Ben
  • Peter (paramedic)
  • Oliver (& Martha)


Youth Club

  • Janine
  • Warren
  • Robert
  • Janet
  • Steven
  • Ben
  • Nicola
  • Shirly
  • Yolande


Family

  • Mum typing my essays
  • Stay with Gran & Gramps after appendix


2 October 1976

Connection (School years: 1977 - 1988)


Teachers

  • Jenny Mallet
  • Paul Cannon
  • Mr King
  • Ray Suttle
  • Barry Smith
  • Gordon Howard
  • Mr Hart
  • Mrs Allan
  • Mrs Basson
  • Mr Burton
  • Mr Andersson
  • Mr Snaydon
  • Mr Sturges
  • Erla Nel
  • Acort Seally
  • Remedial teacher with ribbons


Schoolmates

  • Tony
  • Sean
  • Nicky
  • Liakat
  • Colin
  • Patrick
  • Pierre
  • Andrew
  • Bobby
  • Leon
  • Fish
  • Ian Livingstone
  • Kaffin
  • Julian
  • Rayburn
  • Warren
  • Robert



Family friends

  • Rusconi family
  • Jane and Wendy


15 September 1976

Letter to Mr Suttle

Mr Suttle taught me Latin through my senior school years.  He taught us Latin translation (using brilliant texts he'd developed himself) and also inspired in me a lasting love of Roman history.  As part of our final year, we had to write 3 extended essays on aspects of Roman history and it gave rise to a level of enthusiasm and creativity in me that surprised and delighted me.  You can read one of them here.

Ray Suttle also taught us how to create and use mind maps as a way to study.  I immediately fell in love with this visual and practical tool and used it extensively in my final school year of study. I also used it at university and have used it often in my career.

Ray was elderly and suffered from gout which made him move very slowly.  Some of the boys called him "Speed Wobble" as a result. In his prime, he was the headmaster of a very reputable private school in Zimbabwe.  He was very highly respected for this leadership and scholarly excellence in the Latin field.  However, by the time he came to St Georges, Latin was rapidly falling out of favour, regarded as a dead language and no longer relevant for the modern age.  In our class, there were only three students who studied it. Everyone else opted for Geography instead.  It was the same story in all the younger classes at St Georges.  I think Ray felt this lack of interest very keenly.

In my final exam at school, I gained a distinction in Latin, thanks to Ray's excellent teaching.  This distinction, coupled with a distinction in Afrikaans, earned me a distinction overall which meant the world to me.

I left school, and went to the University of Cape Town on the slopes of Table Mountain to study 1st year Zoology and Botany. However, on a regular basis, I would return to the vicinity of my old school because I was a member of a youth group in the area.

One night, before going to the youth group, I suddenly felt inspired to write Ray Suttle a letter. It was a thank you note, written quickly on a blank piece of paper, but written from the heart.  I thanked him for his excellent teaching that had earned me my distinction. I told him how much I had enjoyed the classes and that I was finding the Latin really useful in my Zoology and Botany lessons. I also told him how much I benefited by using the mind-maps he had taught us.  

As I drove past the school on my way to youth group, I stopped off at Ray's residence on the boundary of school where he lived with his wife, Mam Suttle, who had been our English teacher.  It was late in the evening and getting dark. I dropped off the letter in his letter box and went on my way.

I forgot about it and 5 or more years went by.

Then one day I received a letter out of the blue.  I cannot remember how the letter got to me; maybe via my mum who bumped into Mam Suttle from time to time.  The letter was from Ray.

In the letter, Ray wrote something along the lines of "I remember that night so well, I heard a scurrying outside the door and went out to see someone disappearing off into the darkness. Then I found the letter.  I have to tell you, in all honesty, no letter has ever effected me more. It came at a time when I was feeling completely demotivated and flat in regards to my teaching profession.  I wondered if it was all worth it.  Your kind, heart-felt words meant everything to me.  They sank very deep. They gave me my mojo back.  They made all the difference in the world.  Thank you, thank you for your letter."

Reading these words moved me to tears. It was, and continues to be, my greatest teaching about the immense power of gratitude expressed from the heart. Inspired by this, I have written many more letters of gratitude over the years.  

Thank you, dear Mr Suttle, for yet another of your priceless lessons.


1 September 1970

Connection (Childhood years: 1970 - 1980)


Family and Friends

  • Mum and dad
  • Jo
  • Gran and Gramps
  • Granny and Grandpa
  • The Rusconi's
  • The Cully's
  • My remedial teacher, Mrs Robinson


Pets

  • Scamp
  • Tinkerbell
  • Tina
  • Cindy
  • Meg
  • The hamsters
  • The guineapigs


Toys

  • Wicky
  • Doggies
  • Lone Ranger & Tonto
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